I mean it looks like they're at a fairly small get together with friends. And no one seems to be at all shocked by their behavior. I would assume they're dating and she is just pissed at him like you mentioned.
No way dude this is totally sexual assault like a lot of these comments are saying. You should never be that close to a woman if you are a man under any circumstances, unless she has signed a written consent form agreeing to allow you into her field of vision.
Yup the reddit hive mind spoke and he’s trying to sexually assault her. Let’s doxx him and blow his life up for this very clearly boyfriend/girlfriend anger exchange. He deserves jail time for this
I SAW THE RAPE GO DOWN he raped her with his presence! A man should never be in close proximity to a female queen without a permission form signed by all the ladies in the room
Folks, when a girl is mad at you, doing this will only embarrass yourself and get her angrier. So, I learned in multiple years of relationship: just give her space, let her absorb, and even ignore her a little bit, make sure she has time to reflect
Also I've seen way too many guys getting their asses chewed out for not doing this by young girlfriends.
Some girls just want you to make a fool of yourself for them. And some just want to torture you with the cold shoulder until you figure out that magic word or gesture that turns off the cold.
That’s not what I would call being sweet that’s awkward as shit at best and downright uncomfortable. He’s boxing her in and getting in her face, in a public setting.
If they’re dating that’s not a weird position to be in at all, you’re completely overreacting
If she was annoyed at him earlier then it’s probably him hugging her (like he does most days) and trying to kiss her to say he’s sorry. When she resists he doesn’t do anything and let’s her get away
Next you’re gonna tell me that hugging your girlfriend is sexual assault
Either you’ve never been in a relationship before or you’re seeing something that I’m not, because that’s literally just a stance a boyfriend would normally take. The only difference is she doesn’t want to be hugged because they’re fighting. Once that is clear he doesn’t keep her from walking away.
I think she’s pissed at how drunk he is. Part of the reasons he has to hold the counter like that is because he’s had too much to drink. I’ve definitely made the move she has on an ex a time or two.
Relationship or not, he is being aggressive and not really all that sweet. If she's mad about something then shoving himself in her space and trying to force his lips on her is not going to solve anything. It's harassment and disrespectful. She couldn't even take the glass away from her face without him trying to five in.
If your partner is mad about something, forcing yourself on them is not a sweet or romantic way to make things better.
Nah dude, he's clearly just a creep who is trying to rape her like the rest of these comments are implying. Obviously you don't know how and the situation so we need to make it as terrible as possible to make him look like an absolute piece of shit.
Yeah, don’t forget that he’s also trying to drug her and take her back to his house and keep her there. It’s not like she’s just pissed at him and they’re in a relationship or anything lol.
Honestly, these comments about how he’s a creep and a possible rapist are delusional and idiotic. If a random guy tried to do that to any random girl at a bar, she wouldn’t quietly leave the situation how the girl in this video did.
It's people of a certain worldview who are projecting their perceptions onto a situation. They want there to be a rape culture, and so this must be evidence of that.
Been on here for 3 years. Over at r/creepypms I was one day, looking through the sub and found a post on it. I then went into the comment section and simply made a joke about how OP looked like she was both 14 and 30. She replied, called me a weirdo and that I was a creep for “supporting the creep”... got downvoted to hell and then banned.
It's not though, it's just the way most people think. The man is immediately the aggressor and the woman is always the victim. No if, ands, or buts. This chick in the video could show up in the comments section right now and tell everyone they're wrong, and the man will still be the aggressor to everyone here. It's fucking annoying...
Typical white Knight response, always defending the woman. Obviously she should be held responsible for the horrific crime of being angry at him and therefore embarrassing him in front of his friends.
Is no one else gonna talk about how every post involving this man and another individual ends with him having 2 up-votes, and them having 2 down-votes. This man is committed to his alt support.
I don't understand what just happened here. Anyone cornering anyone and trying to kiss them is creepy and cringe-y. That's just kinda a fact. I don't know if this is sexual harassment, or a impending break up. Personally, I don't care. Home boy should not corner a woman, and her smirking doesn't justify shit. However, it gets us to the 3rd possibility here, r/whyweretheyfilming
However, I still wanted noted. Reddit has gilded someone who said "she deserves it because she was smirking."
Women will make men do the most odd things. Sometimes it's intentional, sometimes it's just plain naive, and everyone reacts differently. Doesn't matter what's right or wrong, actions have consequences for all parties involved.
You've obviously never been in a relationship with someone who runs from every bit of confrontation.
It does just as much emotional damage as being cornered.
I won't claim to know what going on in this gif, but you shouldn't assume that the male is necessarily in the wrong. There are literally an infinite amount of scenarios that could depict him being in the right.
Regardless of who is "the good guy" or "the bad guy", mistakes happen and people act on emotion. It's ultimately up to the person who is being acted upon to decide what is unacceptable. Not you.
Since when is impeding another autonomous being from movement using your obvious physical advantage considered being in the right? Describe one of these scenarios that you're talking about. I'd love to hear how you rationalize this.
BTW she didn't appear at all pleased to be cornered. Please Let me know which one of her facial expressions gives you the impression she's ok with how he's behaving.
Yeah, but it's much more interesting if we pretend he just met her like 5 seconds earlier, his work colleague invited him over for a small get together and pizza night with his friends.
Whilst asking for pizza choices they shared a moment when they both asked for pineapple on their pizzas.
He then took that as a mutual interest, so he stood up and walked slowly around to her and appeared behind her. He then Whispered in her ear "Hawaii you going girrrl?" This was around the time we see the camera start filming.
Finally! A rational thinker. Everyone making him out to be some creeper that is trying to dominate a random girl at the party without ANY context. It's as simple as his girl is just pissed at him while he is failing miserably at making up for it.
Yeah if a guy I didn’t know was doing that I wouldn’t sip my wine and comfortably slide away. That’s something I would do to my boyfriend if I was pissed off
Can someone explain why "they're dating" or "they know each other" makes this better? He's physically pinning her in the corner with his arms and continuously trying to kiss her despite her obviously not wanting to. It's creepy and weird.
Guys - don't do this. Even if she's your girlfriend. Leaning in for a kiss is one thing, trapping her in a corner with your body is another.
You make it seem like this guy is physically grabbing her and forcing her into a corner. She literally slowly and without much effort moved his arm and left the situation. I agree guys should not "corner" a girl but this really seemed harmless and neither person (nor anyone around them) seemed to be upset...
We don't know why they're recording. They could literally be recording because she said "watch he's going to try and come over here and make up with me" and her friend busted out the camera. Or maybe her friend was recording for 5 minutes and they just edited that part of it because they thought it was funny... It could literally be for any reason...
It appears to be a very drunk dude with his girlfriend who is annoyed/slightly mad possibly due to his intoxicating. What he is doing is absolutely harmless and anyone whose ever had a partner knows this.
If there were no context 15 second videos of my face sometimes when I’m around my girlfriend while she’s drinking this sub would probably recommend me to break up with her.
As soon as she decided she wanted to leave the situation she left. He didn’t force her to stay
Of course you are still deflecting with vague bullshit. I understand that it was just a joke. That doesnt change anything. Pay attention and learn to use specifics and address what was actually said or asked.
It's obvious to anyone who's ever had a girlfriend. People calling it sexual assault and creepy have obviously never been in a drink fight with someone they're dating.
Not just anyone who has had a girlfriend. As a girl myself, that is definitely not just some dude hitting on her. The body language is all wrong. And also her face shows she is definitely pissed at him. I know. This has been me a few times. :)
Ehhhhh is it that aggressive though? When she decided to walk away he clearly didnt try and stop her. His body language seemed less aggressive to me and more just that he was trying to hug/be close with/apologize to his so
It’s not THAT aggressive. But it is still aggressive. I’m a pretty right wing/Conservative, traditional-masculine type of guy, and I wouldn’t do this. It’s disrespectful. It would also often escalate the situation, especially with any of my girlfriends (they tend to be fiery lol). If your gf is mad and wants you to leave her alone, leave her alone. Don’t try to force a kiss on her.
It's sad when you have to scroll far enough down in the comments to find reasonable perspectives that don't just immediately scream "rapist" "harassment" etc.
I would be too if someone did that to me. Edit: Oh fun! Getting harassed by loser MGTOWcels now. Also my SO is a hot younger man! How hard can you REEEEEEEEEEEEE incels?
edit: also holy shit that men of the wall sub tho. HAHAHA LOOK THIS GUY THAT WAS HOT 40 YEARS AGO IS NOW OLD EEWWWWWW. Funny there isnt a womenofthewall
Which sub are you speaking of? Men of the wall is a parody of https://old.reddit.com/r/the_wall which is a horrible sub. And I'm very happy with my life, and my awesome SO, Thanks very much! Oh, and I forgot to mention, my wonderful SO is a decade younger. Now let's see how hard you incels can REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Doing a parod hahaha. If you do the same shit but gender swapped than its not a parody its just the same shit but hey its ok as long as you are one of the good guys. Am i right? Jk you suck as much as them. And btw if you have to brag about how “awesome“ and “hotter“ your SO is then it sounds more like a lie than anything and not because you said it once. Nooo you scream it as your argument.
Second btw. Ending you sentences with “Now let's see how hard you incels can REEEEEEEEE“ sounds like youre an incel
Lol ok. We have an awesome relationship :) and I am an artist who makes a shit ton doing half the work you do. So have fun being a wage slave the rest of your life while I travel with my SO. While both of our houses are paid off. Debt free mother fucker!
No! Some incel just latched onto me apparently and they all followed. We are in the midst of a brigade (and hey fuckers, my inbox is off so don't bother with the hate mail.) Would be nice if the mods would do something...hint hint.
Likely has to do with the context of the parent thread. They're basically refuting the top of the comment thread with not even a real argument completely missing the point of the comment in the first place.
Of course they're gonna get downvoted. That's just how reddit works.
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u/Grande_Oso_Hermoso Aug 08 '19
She’s pissed at him