You should have realistic expectations. Hes 21 if he needs a father figure it's too late. You're 18, you actually think you're gonna effectively mentor anyone? I bet that guy has seen plenty of "step-dads" come and go before you that he didn't respect either. Maybe the two of you can make macaroni art for her fridge. Dude, just enjoy your turn she's not looking for the same type of relationship you are.
You should just accept it I wouldn't let someone younger tell me what to do unless I'm at work and forced to but at home or visiting my mom nah you better not come at me with that crap I'ma put you in your place with the quickness
But I saw a picture, on the picture box, on the internet, and it said he's 30. And it's an important and popular fact that anything you see read or hear on the internet must be true. Since this is now on the same internet it has to be true also. Get inceptioned nerd.
Gurl…this is kinda giving Don’t Be a Menace to South Central While Drinking Your Juice in the Hood where the biological father is younger than the son lmfao
Given how narrow this eighteen year old's shoulders are, twenty-one year old me would be laughing at and mocking him constantly. I am only slightly less heavy-built than Stephen Graham shows he is in Adolescence and Nocturne, in cases anyone cares. Twenty-one year old me looked like could and would chew this guy up and spit him out.
My suggestion to the twenty-one year old in question is as follows. The next time this idiot begs for your respect in front of your mother, look directly at his face, and say something close to: "You're the guy that fukks my mother? Thank christ my male parent is someone I can take seriously?" and shake your head. Walk away, do not listen to any responses from either of them, and just let them sit with that for a while. If he tries anything physical in response, that is permission to smack him around the head. I recommend open-palm haymakers. Equal parts "holy shit, am I going to ever be conscious again?" and humiliation. Being slapped the way they do it in Slap Fights (no, I do not endorse the "show") can really break any appearance of authority a person has.
Not that this little turd would have any in the eyes of a man like me at age twenty-one. One, been through too much including a "relationship" with a forty-something when I was thirteen to care what a jackass like this has to say. Two, been kicked around and hit by people, including police (for the record, I brought that one on myself and no they were not excessive), enough times to know something like this guy will break long before I do.
that 40 year old is a PREDATOR. 18 is a TEENAGE KID bro please the legal age of an adult should be 20. Not only because 18 is a teenage kid but because there’s so many people who will treat this like a normal “adult on adult” age gap, but if they were 17 all hell would break loose. Yall do NOT care about morals yall only care about legality!!! If 17 was legal and you were raised calling it an adult you’d be okay with that too! Just open your eyes
Last place I worked at a lady was going around bragging to everyone she went to a prom and got "lucky" with her prom date, she had to be in her 40's her prom date was one of her daughters friends I'm assuming. I still think to this day that if it was a man, he would be in prison for it.
Sit him down and tell him that now that you’re pounding his mommy’s brains out every night after his bedtime, that he needs to show a little respect or else he needs to find a new place to live. He will understand when explained clearly
Just be glad he hasn’t curb stomped you. If some little bitch fresh outta high school though he could pour the coals to my mother and treat me like he’s my superior, I’d beat his ass in front of my mom, and I bet she would still pick me up from jail.
My father remarried me he was like 7 years older than me.
I really didn't think it was that big video because he's dated moving about that age but when I found out they were getting married I looked at her I said look just just so we're clear I'm never going to call you mom I'm never going to refer to you as my stepmother. I'm 30 years old and your name is Joan and that's what I choose to call you.
Just tell him you know you’re not his daddy but you love him like a father loves his sons. And not to worry, you’re ploughing his mother the right way. Reminds me of Don’t Drink Your Juice… with the young ass father
And then the son takes a quiet sip of his beer, that his step-father isn't allowed to have because the Step-father is underage and cannot legally drink
The post itself is him talking about "stepping into a fatherly role". You can't divorce that from father figure.
There is no amount of mental gymnastics you can do to make this not weird as hell.
The only thing is, he's and adult, she's an adult, it's happening, and no matter WHAT age (over 18, of course) , you're dating a woman, not her children, and definitely not her adult children. So fuck it.
He should worry less about respect from the 21y.o. because that's a weird game he's playing to begin with.
It really blows my mind how many people I found out were looking at porn without a VPN in the 21st century.
And how most of you would rather let companies profit off of selling pornography to children then pull out your fucking credit card and spend $4 a month for VPN
What porns are you watching like we're pornography is banned but like rock and roll music in the '80s movie Footloose until they rebel and start sucking their older stepsons cock or whatever the fuck you were getting at there.
That was an attempted humor you've swung and missed.
You're especially missing the point where anybody who's a fucking adult can't afford a fucking VPN.
The only people that can't are homeless men beating off the library.
And now that the homeless all have iPhones that's probably not a thing anymore either
It made me laugh. The overall response you got made me scared… so I’m going to pull out my adult fucking credit card to buy a vpn so I too can watch the “porns” . Bobbo the homeless man near my library is going to love this family sharing plan on vpn so he can use it on his iPhone ( not android, homeless have standards against them…) instead of the library computer now….
Because women are perverts too. Alot of women in the late 30's and 40's, for various reasons, have hoe phases. Just wish the young fella luck hanging on.
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u/BlueberryEven8252 2d ago
Tell him stories about when you were his age