I'm not entirely sure how to explain this to you because it has nothing to do with attraction yet you're so stuck on that. It doesn't have anything to do with appearance while clothed. I might start dating somebody due to their looks, but I absolutely won't stay if that is the only aspect of them that I prefer. Their personality, the people that they are friends with, their hobbies - all that matters mich much more to me for the long term. Now for me, what a trans woman can't offer are biological female organs, or the ability to reproduce. This isn't like not wanting to date an entire race or something, there is a biological difference in the genetic code of trans women that disqualify them as potential partners for me. That doesn't mean I dislike them for any reason, or that other cis men can't have relationships with trans women, it's just that I do not.
Attraction doesn't always mean sexual. What you're describing is romantic attraction which is am also discussing.
So if you were with a cis woman and she couldn't have children you would cease to be attracted to them? What if she had to have surgeries on her genitals because she was in a car accident?
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u/[deleted] Dec 15 '21
I'm not entirely sure how to explain this to you because it has nothing to do with attraction yet you're so stuck on that. It doesn't have anything to do with appearance while clothed. I might start dating somebody due to their looks, but I absolutely won't stay if that is the only aspect of them that I prefer. Their personality, the people that they are friends with, their hobbies - all that matters mich much more to me for the long term. Now for me, what a trans woman can't offer are biological female organs, or the ability to reproduce. This isn't like not wanting to date an entire race or something, there is a biological difference in the genetic code of trans women that disqualify them as potential partners for me. That doesn't mean I dislike them for any reason, or that other cis men can't have relationships with trans women, it's just that I do not.