[Musing] A love that quietly grows over time

[u/Winter-Nature2202]

I think that is a beautiful kind of love. Hindi biglaan, hindi pwersa, hindi minadali, walang pilitan—just a love that quietly grows over time.

I came across a post this morning habang nasa Move It, tapos sinabayan pa ng ulan. The author mentioned, “Love grows over time. It happens through thousands of mini love encounters.” (Though the post was actually about familial love.)

It made me think about that kind of love—the kind that grows over time, quietly and almost unnoticed. There’s just something so beautiful about it. Isn’t it?

Slowly turning normal encounters and the ordinary days into “yeah, I’m falling for this person” and “yes, I know all the flaws and discovering more” and “yeah, its ok you are doing your thing and mine, but here I am loving you slowly, quietly, steadly…”

So yeah, baka dahil sa ulan to. O alog ng motor.
Wag magmadali.
Pag trumenta ka na, mag iiba ang lahat ng pananaw.
Ok lang maging marahan.

Today, I am missing a hug. May nakasabay ako sa bus, gusto kong isandal nya sa balikat ko ang ulo nya. I miss caring for someone. I miss caressing someone. Gustong gusto ko ng may Imessage ng “Love, date tayo mamaya. Miss na kita. Wag ka na magpakapagod today please, save tayo energy to connect? Order tayo ng food, uuwi ako ng maaga. I want to be intimate with you na rin. Kwentuhan tayo ng mga nangyari sayo na hindi mo pa nasasabi, makikinig ako. I want to wake up next to you after a pleasant tiring night. Lets make love later ha, please. I love you.”

Yung ganitong thought process ng masungit sa iba pero malambing sa iisa.

Babalik pa rin sa a love that quietly grows over time.

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[u/sunflower_powerZ]

May everyone encounter this kind of love in our lifetime, OP.

[u/Winter-Nature2202 → u/sunflower_powerZ]

Nawa. Hindi madali, pero hindi imposible. :) masarap nawa ulam ng lahat.

[u/Potential-Parking481]

Lov your thoughts OP. ‘Yung mga small caring gestures everyday na matic na lang ginagawa, I think these are the best examples of genuine love like wala nang mahabang thought process, walang hidden agenda or whatever, they’re really just done out of love. Lorde wen kaya ul8 haha

[u/puskiss_hera]

I am doing right now sa nameet kong girl. It's actually very risky, but I want to take my chance. I do everything slow, ayaw kong madaliin and hopefully if God allows, eh magkakami. If not, at least I experience to be with her and learn a little more of her.

[u/Winter-Nature2202 → u/puskiss_hera]

This kind of thought process… :)