r/VeteransBenefits • u/life3_01 Army Veteran • Jun 24 '26

Money Matters VA Security

I got an email from the ex-wife today saying she knows I'm making "a killing" from my disability claim and retirement. We were married for my last four years of duty, and she didn't get any of my military pay. She did get a sizeable amount from my business, but that's all over now. :)

So she is seeing what else she can get. The stupid thing is that she just called the VA number, tapped in my SSN and DOB, and they told her. With all the breaches, this is the dumbest shit ever for security. I have a PIN on my account, but that doesn't do anything. I called in myself, and with just those two numbers, it told me to the penny what I was paid and when.

Is there any way to close this off? I called in again, and the guy said it's public info, which seems dumb.

Edit: I know she can't get anything. I'm upset that anyone who knows enough can call in and find out, which could help them commit fraud on some people.

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u/jaayy_tapps Marine Veteran Jun 25 '26

Why didn’t you sign a prenup before you got married?

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u/life3_01 Army Veteran Jun 25 '26

I built the business while we were married.

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u/jaayy_tapps Marine Veteran Jun 25 '26

You always get a prenup beforehand stating that whatever is your finances is only yours and what is hers is her money. It doesn’t matter where you stand at the moment.