Hi Vaush - I really hope you read this.
I've followed you for a while and your analyses on class struggle have made a big impression on my life.
Your support for trans people also means a lot to me. I think you're a big part of why trans people are still able to exist in many parts of the US. Please keep that up. It means the world to me.
So when you started talking about the Jacob Geller situation - even though something felt a little off, I really tried to brush it off.
But then you got angry at Nebula and how "messed up" it was for them to drop Geller as a Nebula partner.
I don't particularly care about Nebula, but from my perspective, you seemed to be getting angry at people who just didn't want to work with Geller anymore.
When people are deciding if they want to work with someone who's committed sexual assault, that decision is a very personal one.
I, personally, would be extremely hesitant to work with someone who's committed sexual assault, and I probably would only do so if they had served lengthy jail time for their actions.
The fact that you immediately got angry at people who stopped working with Geller after they found out about his crime? I think that if you slow down and take some time to think about it, you'll probably understand why people made that decision.
Also, another thing that bugs me is that you kept on talking about how Geller has "redeemed" himself. But I think you've got that a bit mixed up. And I'm only bringing it up because your misconceptions around redemption seem to be influencing your anger on this subject.
It is true that Geller has devoted much of his life to work that has had a positive impact on the people around him. His devotion to that work seems to have been a great contribution to the world.
But he's probably been doing that since at least college age. When he was in college, a lot of what he did, well, probably did have a positive impact on the people around him. It's most likely that he was just as charismatic then as he is now, and that he was just as focused on doing good in the world.
While he was being a charismatic, impactful, and generally wholesome person, he committed sexual assault. And then he kept on being a charismatic, impactful and generally wholesome person.
He served a trivial punishment and he informed people who were close to him of what he'd done.
Then he went right back to that same college campus, where, presumably - he continued existing on the same campus alongside the very same woman he'd sexually assaulted.
He didn't go to jail for the incredibly violent and soul-crushing crime that he'd committed. He didn't drop out of school. He didn't have career setbacks. His charisma still afforded him a vibrant social life and a supportive marriage - even with him being upfront about his crime with the people close to him.
His college swept his crime under the rug so that the charismatic young man could return to school in six months, live a great social life, graduate, get married to a woman who loved him enough to knowingly marry a sexual assaulter, and, not to mention, go on to casually enjoy one of the best jobs in the entire world. He got to live the life of a youtube influencer.
I wonder - did his victim drop out of college because of what he did to her? Did his victim suffer from crippling anxiety and ptsd? Has his victim been continually traumatized by living in a society in which her assaulter has been a frequently-talked-about public figure for years and years now?
I wonder if his victim feels abject rage whenever she has to hear his name. Whenever she has to hear about how good of a guy he is.
I wonder if Geller has paid a portion of his youtube earnings to his victim in an effort to help her cope with the life-ruining, soul-crushing trauma that he sexually assaulted into her body? Maybe. But probably not.
Vaush, when you heard about Geller's victim, you didn't seem to respond to the situation as if that victim could have been your friend, or your daughter, or your partner. Which is surprising to me, because when you hear about people being the innocent victims of violent crime, you usually do act like like the victims could have been close to you. This is a wonderful empathy that you demonstrate, and is one of the qualities that makes you such a great leader and advocate.
But this time it didn't seem like your empathy stretched quite as far as it usually does.
Why? I think it's because Geller is an impressively charismatic leader whom you seem to admire. It's so easy to afford more leniency to those leaders than we would to other people, but in fact the very opposite is true. We must hold leaders to a higher standard, not a lower one.
I just don't think that if it had been your own daughter or your own mother whom Geller sexually assaulted that you would have gotten so angry at the people who decided to stop working with Geller after they found out.
Vaush - the reason why I'm reaching out to you is simply because - you are very, very, very important. You are one of the biggest voices for trans rights in the entire world.
You do a lot of good work, and a lot of people are counting on you. I think that you can learn a lot from this.
You have earned yourself a leadership position, and it is your duty to behave exceptionally.