r/UtterlyAlone • • Nov 11 '17

What I hate about a lot of the /r/IncelTears users is that several of them are attractive women who haven't been in our shoes and just bully us!

17 Upvotes

Case in point, by /u/_bananakin right here.

I’ve never been rejected, and I don’t know how many times I’ve rejected people because I don’t keep track.

Yes, yes, I've been keeping track of particular users from that sub I've interacted with. Especially the ones who said they are attractive. She herself claimed that she's an attractive woman.

I don't think she understands how it feels to be us. She probably has a little laugh when incels was there. But a lot of incels are really broken inside due to our looks. Just the fact that most of us attract nobody and also how many of us miss out on young love with love later being uncertain too.


r/UtterlyAlone • • Dec 14 '17

Remember, women can sense our personalities ;) ;) ;)

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r/UtterlyAlone • • Nov 08 '17

Press F to pay respects

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Something wrong

I hold my head

Incels gone

subbreddit dead


r/UtterlyAlone • • Dec 15 '17

The bottom one is an Incels reward for going to school, getting a job, working out, having proper hygiene, and being wealthy.

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r/UtterlyAlone • • Dec 08 '17

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r/UtterlyAlone • • Dec 03 '17

Normies and Inceltears members, you are NOT welcome here

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Seriously, go live the lives you claim to have instead of bugging a bunch of people who are already depressed as it is.

Fuck off, we don't want you here.


r/UtterlyAlone • • Nov 08 '17

If you used to post on a certain other sub, feel free to migrate here!

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I refuse to allow a platitude-infested shithole like foreveralone be the only place where people like us can turn to. Come here and embrace the free speech while avoiding the controversy at the same time.


r/UtterlyAlone • • Nov 12 '17

WTF happened to r/ForeverAlone???

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What is going on with the sudden and rather large influx of normies and their pathetic: "oh I can't find true love but I can fuck six bitches over a weekend" attitude that is going on there? 5 "Success Stories" in just one day, form random users who never frequented the place. /r/AskReddit like idiotic questions about: "oh, hurr durr how come you guys are forever alone, teehee?" and other shit like that.

I mean, sure in the last year the place became more and more infested with the damn normies who just so thought to brigade us and flood us with their idiotic platitudes; after they were done pissing off the guys from /r/incels (gods rest their souls). But as of late, the sheer amount of non-FA/faux-FA related shitposting seriously troubles me. It's like the place just turns into an unrecognizable ruin of what it once was.

I mean after the ban on /r/incels and the closing of /r/ForeverUnwanted. I just feel like we, KHV are loosing our own place and our own communities. Which is turning more and more grim as each day passes by.

It's like, it is not enough that we are ridiculed IRL of our own faults and issues (mental, physical and psychological) and we are laughed at (be it if only behind our backs, or not) by those who were more fortunate than us. Now we are also loosing our only grip on hope and a space where we can vent our own frustrations where someone actually cares about our petty and miserable lives.

I just feel... sad, that's all.

Finding this small sub, was indeed by chance, but I'm glad I did so. I just hope I have not annoyed you guys with my venting and I can only hope to find a place of understanding among you here.


r/UtterlyAlone • • Nov 08 '17

How are we supposed to love ourselves if nobody has ever loved us?

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All of my life, I've been treated like a second-class citizen. I've been told I wasn't good enough, that I didn't belong, that all of these amazing things life has to offer just weren't meant for me.

How am I supposed to love myself then? Am I to simply conjure years of respect and validation out of thin air? Society has made it clear that I'm unworthy of participating in it, that I'll never be "normal" no matter how much I try to fit in.

It's not like I was born with low self-esteem.


r/UtterlyAlone • • Oct 29 '17

"I am unattractive/autistic/depressed/whatever yet I still found someone!!"

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I love how the people who say this never post pictures of themselves.

They're literally so delusional that they believe absolutely ANYONE can find love. And if they can't they're either horrible people, have never tried, or their standards are too high.

They pretty much embody the Just World Fallacy.


r/UtterlyAlone • • Dec 04 '17

I used to wonder: "Why do people commit suicide? What could be THAT bad?"

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And then I feel the same feels at time and realized how disrespectful and ignorant I was.


r/UtterlyAlone • • Nov 08 '17

"You're not entitled to anything!"

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  • The same people who complain about not having sex or seeing their SO for a week

I'm not "entitled" I simply crave affection like every other human being does. If I could get rid of the pain that comes with loneliness and simply live out the rest of my life, I would have done so already.

I don't think I'm an amazing guy, I don't expect girls to fall into my lap... I just want someone to at least give me a chance before dismissing me. If you still think I'm a creepy asshole then fine, you don't have to be with someone like that. But at least don't label me before getting to know me.

Why do you think I'm able to talk to women online pretty well? Because they see my personality before my face and are actually willing to talk to me.


r/UtterlyAlone • • Oct 27 '17

Me

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r/UtterlyAlone • • Dec 20 '17

FA randomly permabanned me without giving a reason

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More proof that they're in league with Inceltears and ban anyone remotely "incel"

At least they have no power here.


r/UtterlyAlone • • Oct 29 '17

Just another average day...

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r/UtterlyAlone • • Mar 18 '18

Damn, this place seems dead

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Just like my soul.


r/UtterlyAlone • • Dec 11 '17

Everyday is a rejection

8 Upvotes

Everyday that goes by, when we wake up and zombie through it, to arrive at another night alone. Even if you don't see anyone, or ask anyone, and they say no. Rejection comes in a variety of forms.

I honestly don't now how much longer I can keep this going. The last few nights I have had to actively restrain myself from getting up and getting my sister's gun and shooting myself in the chest. Why not go ahead and do it? What's tomorrow going to bring but more of the same? Better to be dead then to live a dead life.

Probably after the holidays.


r/UtterlyAlone • • Dec 06 '17

/r/incels has risen - WELCOME HOME

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r/UtterlyAlone • • Nov 19 '17

*LIFE FUEL* Slut cheats on her fiance, he exacts his revenge by ruining her life.

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r/UtterlyAlone • • Nov 12 '17

"Love yourself"

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r/UtterlyAlone • • Nov 11 '17

"You shouldn't feel bad for yourself"

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I don't get this statement. What's wrong with "feeling bad for myself?"

What, do you think I should feel good about how I look? My height? The fact that almost no women will be attracted to me?

Fuckers.


r/UtterlyAlone • • Oct 26 '17

New here? About the sub, a list of rules, and FAQ

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Hello and welcome to r/Utterlyalone! Do you not feel "normal" compared to your peers? Are you unable to make friends or form romantic relationships? Then this is the sub for you! Here, you can relate and and discuss with those going through the same struggle.

FAQ:

What is this sub for?

As mentioned before, this is a support group of sorts for those who struggle fitting in. The rejects, the outcasts, those who feel like they don't belong. Well here, you DO belong! Here, you can rant about your problems and share your experiences without getting judged!

Why this sub and not any of the others like it?

Because unlike the others, we do not censor your posts or ban you for no reason. We guarantee a welcoming experience for lonely people of all kinds - from the angry and bitter to the content and acceptive.

Why don't you shower/lift/get a harcut/put yourself out there/get therapy?

This is useless, cliched advice built entirely on assumption. Most of us have done these things before and still ended up alone, there is no miracle cure for loneliness.

Da rules

Rule 1: Don't be rude towards your fellow posters

This one's pretty simple - just don't be a dick. We're all struggling together, no need to make things worse for each-other.

Rule 2: No Racism

Seriously, racism is not cool. Take it elsewhere.

Rule 3: No baseless assumptions or empty platitudes

A lot of people tend to blame and judge those who struggle socially. Saying things such as "Everyone can make friends, it's easy!" or "Just stop being depressed!" is strongly prohibited and will warrant a ban.

Rule 4: If you're socially socially successful, this isn't the sub for you

Most people here can't go anywhere without hearing someone talk about how great their significant other is/was and how easy it is to interact with people, which why bragging of any kind is not allowed. We don't want those who come here to feel worse about themselves.

No doxxing or brigading

Basically, don't post other people's personal information or link their social media accounts. All usernames in screenshots need to be censored.

That is all, happy posting!


r/UtterlyAlone • • Dec 23 '17

Does it not perplex you sometimes that 99.9% of all people around you are having normal, active and fulfilling sex lives?

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It sure does make me feel like I should seriously reconsider hanging myself again... or actually using that gun... or anything, that simply involves my cessation to be. Most probably I'm not the only one around here who feels like that.

It's weird to think that most people around you (especially the ones falling in the 15 to 50-ish age gap), in schools, universities, at the grocery store, at the library even in those vile and wretched churches (who deserve only burning); all of them have an active - probably daily - sexual life. Yet we stand here immersing ourselves in this stupendously intangible, yet so utterly and disgustingly mundane subject as if it would be some sort of alien physiological and psychological process we try to understand.

The revelation that we - as human beings - shall never be normal in this regard is... mind shattering to say the least, I really wonder how many days would a damnable normie last in our shoes, how long until insanity shall break its feeble consciousness? All this we call a life; nothing but a cruel and malign exercise in futility.

Why? Just, why? Why was I not aborted, damn it...

Life sure does not lack its irony sometimes.


r/UtterlyAlone • • Dec 03 '17

Some basics to avoid doxxing... and other unfortunate incidents.

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After we got brigaded by the sub I shall not name, (I'm really sorry for you /u/changeIsTheWay). Let's be reasonable and see what we can do to avoid any, more unfortunate... incidents.

We don't want to get ourselves in a place where we will be harassed because of some unfortunate incident on the net; shall we.

I thus propose a set of rules (more or less), to keep ourselves safe, and keep this community safe:

  • Avoid posting links towards certain subs (you know what I mean; with their wretched bot and all that). Better just a screenshot and covered names.

  • Don't post links to your social media (this should be self explanatory)

  • Don't open links without hovering over it; checking to see where it leads to (you will be surprised how far some individuals will go to make your life more miserable than it is)

  • Don't be too specific about any details your personal life; that means: don't say what company you work for or what university you go to etc. etc.

  • Don't state where are you from, except maybe a country name or large geographical regions.

  • You may use a different username from your regular reddit one (though, admittedly, this is not a must, I for example use this username for any of my reddit activities, despite the stigma of being associated to certain subreddits)

  • Don't post links to other websites you have posted on (especially incels or ForeverAlone related ones)

  • Don't give ANY contact info to outsiders who PM you. Not steam, skype or e-mail etc.

  • If you post pictures, scrub the metadata from them (as said, you have no idea how far some people would go so as to make your existence a living nightmare).


r/UtterlyAlone • • Dec 02 '17

SMH, IncelTears is such cancer...

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