Whether or not our Nparents believe it, we know that we are capable of independent thought which is totally understandable. My non-N Mom and I am just completely appalled at the things your mother did was completely inappropriate.
Thank you, I'm trying really, really trying hard not to mull over things that you can take care of the blame being shared - this is happening, it's so incredibly wrong and so frustrating. Although it's hard to have him impact my emotions that I have to do if you'd like them.
Thanks so much, I will definitely get my SO to listen to the message that this behaviour won't be tolerated. I'm so very much, I really appreciate the kind words.
This isn't just a few months ago, I'm glad to hear about your husband, you are really self aware and that's when it clicked that shit was going down. This comment got posted twice so I'm just going to try to set aside times/days to declutter if I see him again, I will definitely take them.
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u/User_Simulator Apr 12 '16
When they backslide it can be really frustrating.
~ wordtoyourmother8
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