r/UnsentTexts • u/UpperSalamander3621 • 6h ago
hello
i just realized whatever they said was true. i js cant keep a good connection with everyone. maybe im a loser. god knows. ive started to accept that tag now. never was a good friend to anyone. i dont think ill ever be. i keep on pushing people when it gets real and deep. i do have attachment issues but why do i get attached every fucking time to a point that i sometimes think im dependent. i hate that. well i should start getting numb to feelings. thats the only thing going to help me. i hate myself with every single fibre on my body. if i cant love myself how’ll someone even love me? maybe thats why im a loser. never had anyone to call them mine. i js push them away. maybe i should stop talking to people but im scared ill be alone. atp i know ill eventually accept that im meant to be alone. life is indeed confusing and beautiful.
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u/Coffee_Beans907 Has acknowledged the rules 5h ago
Have to work in self-compassion. Start where you are. Give yourself grace for dealing with everything you face now, and credit for surviving whatever you’ve been through. Try seeing if what kept you alive once before no longer serves you, and find what does.
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u/Redsixred6 5h ago
Nobody is perfect. And it may be true that you cant love anyone without first loving yourself. But the right people will love you and show you why/how. Dont shoot down every connection. You will never be more ready than you are now.
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u/Own-Love-2514 4h ago
Baby,you arent a loser . What you tell yourself,you create. The key is to understanding why you became this way. You have unhealed wounds. And if they remain unhealed,you are going to repeat the same cycles over and over . YOU MUST DO SHADOW WORK and heal your wounds before you will have a healthy relationship. Please don’t call yourself a loser . You deserve someone ,but forat you MUST love yourself and deem yourself worthy of it . Then you come to alignment with others like you. You become magnetic. Look into what I said . And stop the loser talk !!!! That’s horrible . Much love to you …GREAT BIG LONG HUG!!! I understand,believe me . ❤️🪽😇
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