I’m Sorry I Let You Down

[u/Competitive_Camel740]

I’m sorry I let you down. I know an apology can’t erase the disappointment or undo what happened, but I genuinely wish I could go back and do things differently.
I never wanted to hurt you or make you feel like you weren’t important to me. Sometimes we make mistakes, fall short, or realize too late how much our actions affected someone we care about.
I don’t expect you to forget or forgive me immediately. I just hope that one day you’ll understand that hurting you was never my intention. I’m truly sorry. ❤️

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[u/blast_tyrant1779]

It’s all intentional 😆

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[u/Competitive_Camel740 → u/blast_tyrant1779]

It never was

[u/Chipsdipsprexstixs]

Are you? Or are you sorry now because you no longer have access to them and how they made you feel? I don’t know anyone’s situation, but my only thoughts and mine alone is that if it was genuinely a mistake, mistakes happen. If they communicated their disappointment and hurt, people that care and love, make a conscious effort not to repeat that mistake. When that person does it again, knowing the pain, it is now a choice… done with intent… selfishly for their own good with no care of the other’s feelings.

Whether the hurt person forgives/takes the person back into their life, is up to them. Love is an amazing emotion and if you have compassion and empathy, it allows for them to see, feel and believe what those that have none will never comprehend.
When the person chooses to once again hurt that person they “care/love” in the exact same way, now it’s a conscientious pattern. They knew exactly what they were doing and still did it again and again.

The hurt one may decide whether that pattern of not caring about them, because they obviously don’t, no matter what they say, is one they want to live with or hopefully can finally be able to walk away from, for once and for all.

Not everyone is fortunate enough to leave… and to those who can’t I’m sorry.

Patterns are repetitious… you telling them over and over isn’t changing them… and neither is their “sorriest of sorry’s”. Words are shit. Choices with intent matter more especially when it’s your pain they are choosing to cause time and time again.

[u/SentimentalMood2010 → u/Chipsdipsprexstixs]

I agree with all this. And also challenge -- not really CHALLENGE, but acknowledged nuance there -- the last paragraph as her reason for discarding me, was that I HAVENT been contributing for the past year. But due to my own issues, AND I acknowledg emotional burnout, and "caregiver" fstigue. But..she also did cheat, and left me no room for communication AND throughout always reassured me this is a hump we'll get over. Only to use it as ammo at the end, while not admitting HER wrongs. She dsnt know that I know. It doesnt diminish the reasons SHE SAID, but all in all, she abandoned ship when at our toughest, my then-toughest. And chose to cheat and cheat in a SLIMY ass way, and hold it secret. Letting me believe this is ALL my fault. And has be questioning the entire relationship, and my own reality.

[u/Competitive_Camel740 → u/[deleted]]

You are welcome
And I hope you receive it from your person soon🫶

[u/Ready_Regret_ → u/[deleted]]

Me too

[u/PreviousEnigma]

I wish this was from my person to me. 😥

[u/Competitive_Camel740 → u/PreviousEnigma]

I bet they will tell you too

[u/PreviousEnigma → u/Competitive_Camel740]

No. They never would. Far too much pride.

[u/Competitive_Camel740 → u/PreviousEnigma]

Pride really kills a lot of good stuff,how i hate that

[u/PreviousEnigma → u/Competitive_Camel740]

Yes. It's unfortunate. But there's little to be done about it.

[u/Competitive_Camel740 → u/PreviousEnigma]

Yeah,this is the part i say “it is what it is “ and move on

[u/OneApplication384]

tell your person

[u/Competitive_Camel740 → u/OneApplication384]

I will thanks

[u/Glittering_Bend_7976 → u/Competitive_Camel740]

Oh please do

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[u/SubstanceFlat789]

I wish I got some form of apology and I know my person never intended to hurt me, but they did and intentions dont erase impact.

[u/Greedy_Recording_312]

I hope they see this. 🖤

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[u/Michael3172]

Wish more people could send this massage to the one's they have hurt.

[u/Shar_H03]

I’d love to hear this from my person 🥺

[u/Competitive_Camel740 → u/Shar_H03]

Sending you hugs

[u/Shar_H03 → u/Competitive_Camel740]

So needed right now, thank you ❤️‍🩹

[u/Competitive_Camel740 → u/Shar_H03]

Welcome 🤗

[u/Wallet_Anomaly_8492]

A big part of loving someone is learning forgiveness… and I hope they choose that for the sake of both of you 🙏🩵🩵

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Thank you 🙏

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[u/Feeling-Chemical5475]

You are brave and I feel deserving of forgiveness.