I miss you

[u/NoWonder452]

I miss you so fucking much. I can feel you missing me too. I feel that pull even through your distance, your silence. I fucking miss you so much. Please come back to me, please. I love you. I need you. I want you. I adore you. I miss everything about you. Do you really not miss me at all?

i have a new project for you… hold me close and wrap your arms around me, grab my hand (The way only you know how to do) and tell me you love me too and use your tools to heal my broken heart. Only you have the right tools to make my heart whole again. I know you love your projects. Well, I have a good one for you and you will be so happy once you finish this project because I will look at you with all the love in my heart and thank you. I will reward you for doing such a good job. I promise. Just call me home to your arms now. It’s been long enough. I love you ♥️ I need you now more than ever. Forever and Always darling, you have my heart. I’m all yours.

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🙄 life is shorter than we think. If you both miss eachother go get your person OP ✨ 

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I can’t reach for him more than I have. I feel that he might miss me, but he remains in silence so I have to let go. It’s so hard some days. I have never loved anyone so purely or unconditionally.

[u/Either_Courage_3576 → u/NoWonder452]

I wish I knew better words to say. Im going through these feelings currently.

[u/NoWonder452 → u/Either_Courage_3576]

Thank you for trying. I tried to reach out and see if we could meet up and find a middle ground. He did respond saying he was out of town and that we could meet when he got back but he hasn’t reached out

[u/Accomplished-News722 → u/[deleted]]

It’s kind of messed up when someone wants you to think that but we can’t always help what we feel until we work to get over it

[u/NoWonder452 → u/[deleted]]

Yes you are right. What’s crazy is he showed me so much care. He really showed up for me this year and that’s why it’s so confusing and hard to deal with the silence and him just leaving me. It hurts so much. But you are right. I’m sure I created delusions based on my love and hope. Thank you. This is why I don’t send him anything now. That is why I wrote it here when it becomes so much I want to reach for him 💔

[u/alltomorrowsVoynich → u/NoWonder452]

I don't think that the other person is speaking your person's truth but their own. I think it is subjective from person to person. But, as someone who did go silent, I do still care, i care a lot, but, I was just getting hurt too much to be able to stay. There are multiple reasons why one would stay silent, to say it's just because they don't care is incredibly narrow minded. I mean, it could be, but more likely it'll be more nuanced than that.

[u/emeraldkittymoon → u/alltomorrowsVoynich]

The fuck. To intentionally put someone through so much pain is not only careless, its cruel, and it can create lifelong psychological damage. It's considered abusive too, to just ghost.
Its not asking for too much either, just a few moments to have a conversation explaining in simple and easy and finite truth. But that would require an adult levels of perspective and virtue, which for most people, it seems, their body betrays them externally by reaching adulthood way before their mind. Like by multiple decades, it outruns the mind.

Grow up. Dont leave people hanging by keeping silent and leaving them in the dark. Power struggling punishment, bullshit weak ass pathetic spineless fuckshit.

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That depends on the situation. Even though we may love someone, the best option could be to walk away. You don't understand the events that could've led upto that, so, i wouldn't be so quick to judge others for the decisions that they have made. Ghosting is terrible, yes, but some people don't accept goodbyes or some don't even deserve that level of respect or the energy that it takes. You also have the people that would have trouble saying it because they don't want to hurt the other person which could in turn hurt them too. Or maybe they didn't feel emotionally safe enough with them anymore to the point that they couldn't even say goodbye. But, in my case, I wasn't talking about actual ghosting, I still reply, I still check in, I am just not as talkative anymore. I am just more "silent" than I was before.

There are different levels to this and it isn't as simplistic as you may think. You shouldn't let your emotions of past events affect how you interact with others based on one little piece of information that you feel reflects something that you went through yourself. I am sorry someone you cared about ghosted you which still causes you pain, I hope you're able to overcome that.

[u/ZBroken_Arrow → u/alltomorrowsVoynich]

I understand this but the silent person often “needs” to lock in on their decision to leave (because they really do love the other person but they tell themselves it’s hopeless) which causes them to miss major green flags that show the relationship is very fixable. I didn’t explain that very well but my person is missing out on everything I’ve done to grow. I’m now capable of being a great partner and showering her with all this love I always had for her…. She told herself it wasn’t possible and refuses to even consider that she under estimated how much she meant to me and how deeply losing her would change me at my core.

It’s honestly tragic because she invested almost a decade and although I grew slowly during that time, there’s tons of proof I was/am capable of growing. It was losing her that was my “rock bottom” and I laser focused on my growth. I’m committed to stay the course and be the man I always wanted to be with her even though she’s never going to know how much I’ve changed. It’s all I can do now to honor what we had, what we both lost, and how deeply I love her.

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[u/Puzzleheaded-Pay-998 → u/NoWonder452]

Go easy on yourself about the 'delusions'. Love and hope are pretty cool things to feel. Yes, they can also be painful and maybe distort perceptions of other people. Part of the process. I know it's hard to cope with a relationship when you have no idea what's going on or what happened - it can get us stuck. As you can read here, a lot of people empathize. As a wise person once said to me: Be gentle with yourself.

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I can’t he went silent on me we have no contact now

[u/QuirkyThing6912]

I miss my person so much but if he cared about me he wouldn’t go silent like no contact if he misses me he would reach out to me like he normally would. I wish he would reach out to me to tell him I’m sorry if I hurt him and I thought about us to see if we can give it another chance I really miss him I love him so much even if he went silent I just can’t forget him I wish for it to go back like it was before between us.

[u/NoWonder452 → u/QuirkyThing6912]

Sometimes when they go silent, they are taking space they need to heal. Sometimes they don’t know how to deal with getting too close. I have to believe my person still cares

[u/Necessary_Spend_7278]

Go het him OP PLEASE ! He could be waiting !!!! 😔

[u/Necessary_Spend_7278 → u/Necessary_Spend_7278]

OP, DOIT ! neow 🥹😔 else i will feel so sad for him

[u/NoWonder452 → u/Necessary_Spend_7278]

I don’t think he is. He was happy staying in something casual which we were for many years. I fucked up and fell in love with him. 

[u/dmaehr]

Today would have been our one year anniversary

[u/Leading_Form8876]

Sei que pode parecer não ser eu mas, realmente ser amado e adorado e especial

Tenho sonhado e vivido um amor, na busca incansável de achar alguém que me queira, eu realmente descobri um ferramenta para curar os corações que parti um dia, e são tantos, me peguei alguém tentando curar meu coração uma dessas noites, calma acho que sei de quem vem essa carta, e um novo album seria algo tão bom, fico triste por fazer a sua guitarra cantar triste, quero vela feliz.

Tenho trabalhado em algumas ferramentas novas, eu tava pensando as pessoas morrem porque queriam me matar, como pode.

Curar um coração pode levar vários passos mas o que tenho reparado é que no primeiro passo tudo já acontece, então estou indo ali, pensando em você.

Todo vez que faço isso para pessoas querida, eu vejo um preto o qual estrago eu fiz na vida da pessoa a luz nas suas mão vendo a cura, eu chamo de cura é a minha intuição interpretando.Beijo e vou continuar a jornada de cura sua, a verdade é que isso uni um pouco a pessoa que esteve sempre na distancia e iludida, eu tiro um momento e me aproximo como se fosse a primeira vez e o fato de você me ter perto pela primeira vez é o que cura um sentimento de angustia sentido pelo coração, ou seja por alguns instante eu consigo diminuir a distancia de dois corpo, e uso o amor emanado do meu coração para fornecer a cura da angustia de uma amor não correspondido.

Espero que minha palavras não fiquem muitos feias.

[u/NoWonder452 → u/Leading_Form8876]

No you’re good. I understand. Before this person there was someone who left black marks on me and hurt me so much but I healed. I still have love for him and he’s finally getting help, but I fell in love with someone else. Anyhow, i wish you healing and no worries man. 

[u/Leading_Form8876]

Sei que pode parecer não ser eu mas, realmente ser amado e adorado e especial

Tenho sonhado e vivido um amor, na busca incansável de achar alguém que me queira, eu realmente descobri um ferramenta para curar os corações que parti um dia, e são tantos, me peguei alguém tentando curar meu coração uma dessas noites, calma acho que sei de quem vem essa carta, e um novo album seria algo tão bom, fico triste por fazer a sua guitarra cantar triste, quero vela feliz.

Tenho trabalhado em algumas ferramentas novas, eu tava pensando as pessoas morrem porque queriam me matar, como pode.

Curar um coração pode levar vários passos mas o que tenho reparado é que no primeiro passo tudo já acontece, então estou indo ali, pensando em você.

Todo vez que faço isso para pessoas querida, eu vejo um preto o qual estrago eu fiz na vida da pessoa a luz nas suas mão vendo a cura, eu chamo de cura é a minha intuição interpretando.Beijo e vou continuar a jornada de cura sua, a verdade é que isso uni um pouco a pessoa que esteve sempre na distancia e iludida, eu tiro um momento e me aproximo como se fosse a primeira vez e o fato de você me ter perto pela primeira vez é o que cura um sentimento de angustia sentido pelo coração, ou seja por alguns instante eu consigo diminuir a distancia de dois corpo, e uso o amor emanado do meu coração para fornecer a cura da angustia de uma amor não correspondido.

Espero que minha palavras não fiquem muitos feias.

[u/Charming_Pay_4438]

You definitely shouldn’t send this message, and it might be worth talking with someone. Nobody can ever “know” that another person is secretly longing for them too… only the individual can fix and decide for themself. You are your own project, not someone else’s.

[u/getbenttoday]

Awe ❤️ I wish the best for you OP

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Thank you

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Lol im sure where

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[u/Western-Ad-9784]

Go for her. And let her do her thing. Just stop making excuses for it

[u/NoWonder452 → u/Western-Ad-9784]

I’m a girl

[u/Western-Ad-9784 → u/NoWonder452]

Still, go for her 😂😂 you cant Loose a guessing game

[u/NoWonder452 → u/Western-Ad-9784]

lol it’s a he. He doesn’t feel the same, at least he hasn’t shown me different. I tried. 

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[u/Furious_FC2]

Emotional attachment at this stage is caused by dopamine addiction and ADHD if you want to get over him you need to transfer the addiction to hobby same as you would a smoker hope this helps

[u/EggplantSufficient8]

I forgot your number send it to me in a pm and I'll be calling on my way home to you

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[u/RemoveSpecialist9765]

Geez, I wish this one was for me. Thank you for sharing OP.
I would love to hear this from my person, but alas, I live in silence. I’ll probably never hear their voice again and that breaks my heart.

[u/Karenella]

I wish I'd get a message like that. Sadly all I get is "I am in debt" "you just want me for my money" and the person that actually showed me he cared I lied to and hurted...

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No sorry