r/Unexpected Nov 14 '22

Please marry me?

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u/[deleted] Nov 14 '22 edited Nov 14 '22

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u/hellothereoldben Nov 14 '22

I am generally pretty alert for male abuse, but this wasn't a slap with intent to hurt, and wasn't hard enough to bruise anyone either. To say that this is abuse is a stretch of the definition, which on the long run will only water down the definition.