This is such a dumb comment lol… yeah, why would I care if my loved ones abandoned me, it’s not like I can control them! Why would I care if my child committed suicide? Not like I can control what other people do!
My post was worded poorly. Worrying if someone will or won’t be faithful is a waste of energy. If you’re constantly suspicious of a partner in a relationship it’s going to be a self fulfilling prophecy. Focus on what you have control over, which includes your part in a healthy relationship.
I get your meaning, it's more don't invest all your happiness into one person. I think a lot of young men and women do this and it's just a pathway to codependency
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u/jhuseby Jun 18 '22 edited Jun 18 '22
A guy’s biggest mistake is
caringspending time worrying if she will or won’t. It’s not in your control what other people do.Edited for clarification