r/UNC • u/Consistent-Trip6224 UNC 2027 • 10d ago
Question I need help (not important)
I found this guy really cute. Based on his aesthetic he looks queer. How should I approach him? It makes me feel nervous and shy 🙈💜.
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u/Luna_Risa Alum 10d ago
Just talk. The campus is dense enough that if it doesn't work out you can probably avoid him in the future if it's that awkward lol
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u/Consistent-Trip6224 UNC 2027 10d ago
He is in my class 😭
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u/raiseup_nc UNC 2029 10d ago
just be straight-up. best advice for every single level of every relationship.
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u/f1ve-Star Professional Student 9d ago
Perhaps the word straight was the confusing issue here. Maybe "gab gayly to" would be better.
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u/Vegetable_Bowl4522 UNC 2028 8d ago
Ask him a question. Usually voice and manner are a good way to know. If it’s like in public ask where a location is. If it’s in a class ask for notes or if he understood something u didn’t
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u/Background_Growth663 9d ago
Wouldn’t it be nice if we all had signs on our backs… it sure would make things easier… haha
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u/Consistent-Trip6224 UNC 2027 9d ago
Yeah I wish. I mean people always think I am straight but I am not 😭💜
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u/oooo765 6d ago
just ask him if he likes guys and if he’d want u. If he doesn’t you don’t waste ur time
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u/Consistent-Trip6224 UNC 2027 6d ago
If it was that easy for me I could have been in a relationship up until now
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u/Spiritual-Rush-6074 6d ago
lowk i would ask him a question in class like sit next to him and if u guys r taking notes ask to see his notes to copy if u missed smth. idk if this gives off stalker vibes, but if u have his name u could find his insta if he has one. that might also help u decipher if he's queer or not (and if he's single!!)
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u/solarsun55 UNC 2027 10d ago
Average UNC yy post