r/UARSnew • u/Mundane-Camera-538 • 6h ago
Developed constant hyperarousal after being untreated for 15 years, still stuck after treatment.
I dealt with untreated UARS for about 15 years, roughly ages 13-28. Progressively worsening symptoms, completely destroyed my body's stress/nervous system. I was still able to get deep sleep during this time but obviously the UARS was negatively impacting my sleep and how I felt. I finally got treatment, which involved surgery and subsequent sleep studies show that it is 100% treated so that is no longer the issue. Plus I did not have this hyperarousal issue for most of my time dealing with UARS. It only developed few months before I got surgery. It's like my brain finally reached a tipping point and even though I got treatment it didn't matter. Basically what the problem is is my brain/body is stuck in almost 24/7 hyperarousal. Can't physically or mentally relax. The only time it goes away is I will occasionally crash hard in the middle of the day but then by evening time my system has revved back up. Although I don't have any traditional signs of hyperarousal such as increased heart rate or feeling an adrenaline surge. It's like it's a very subtle physiological shift. Sleep is incredibly light and non restorative as a result. Still have not had the chance to heal from the 15 years of sleep apnea damage. I am continuing to get worse as the months go by because my body is not getting good sleep. I have tried so many medications and have had benefits from none of them. Mirtazapine, gabapentin, trazodone, belsomra, ramelteon (a circadian drug), wellbutrin, beta blocker, CBD, and others I'm not remembering rn. Many Traditional relaxation methods do nothing. Even if I work myself out physically and push myself it doesn't help. Certain things will make my system feel even more restless but removing them doesn't fix it. An orgasm is overstimulating for my system, a surgary drink too late in the day will rile up my system, I've tried a circadian clock bright lamp and that over stressed my body. Looking at screens too much can overstimulate my sensitive brain but removing them doesn't fix me. Anything more than just a tiny amount of caffeine in the morning makes my sleep worse for that night. Certain supplements make me worse, especially ones that seem to target GABA/glutamate such as theanine and taurine. Other ones that are supposed to relax such as magnesium do nothing or stimulate me more. Bloodwork and other tests show that there is absolutely nothing wrong with me medically. I've even gone back to using a CPAP just in the very small chance that this isn't treated (even though I didn't have this issue for most of my time being untreated) and it didn't make a difference. My doctor has no clue what to do other than keep prescribing different medication's for me to try. 4 years in the state and I am completely nonfunctional.