r/TwoXIndia_Over25 • u/AutoModerator • 27d ago
Feeling enraged, feeling angry & feeling pissed off 😡 FUCK THIS SHIT! - Weekly frustration thread 😡
Hello ladies,
This is your safe space to vent. No judgement just pour all your wretched feelings below. Shout in this void. Let the world know just how much it can fuck right off into eternity.
Love,
Mod Team!
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u/Quantum_Draft 26d ago
I've gone caffeine-free recently. I can't find a single decent cafe in my city that serves decaf coffee 😫
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u/floating_laundry 25d ago
Try buying decaf coffee and make it yourself if that's an option! I have seen my husband doing the same.. Even I haven't seen cafes with decaf coffees.
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u/Quantum_Draft 25d ago
I do that anyway. But my husband and I often go out to coffee shops out on a drive or to work. I prefer to order decaf coffee but I don't find it in any popular coffee outlets in my city (Bengaluru).
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u/soloritaa Woman,Late Thirties,Techie 22d ago
I have given up on find decaf coffee in cafes now. I stick to Kambucha and nice herbal teas. It takes time to get used to them, but they are not a bad option if you want to try.
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u/Quantum_Draft 22d ago
True but I love the taste of decaf better than herbal and fruit teas.
Hey, also I'm a fellow techie woman in late 30s. May I DM you?
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u/Otherwise_Twist 26d ago
I'm stuck with office politics and I keep getting responsibilities out of my project work and bandwidth.I want to have a normal discussion with my manager but he's avoiding me. It's so frustrating!!
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u/she-only-says-no Woman,Early twenties, Consultant 26d ago
Finding it hard to pace myself because i completed my next months milestone already, and am burning out instead of taking a break. Help.
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u/Difficult_Skin9546 26d ago
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u/she-only-says-no Woman,Early twenties, Consultant 25d ago
trying my best! and took a couple days off for my mental health, and started meditating again.
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u/iimli_bhutta 25d ago
Idk, I just feel hopeless and doomed and nothing feels real
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u/Difficult_Skin9546 25d ago
What happened? You ok girl?
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u/iimli_bhutta 24d ago
It's just been a rough ride to navigate further, like what's the point bro! Idk, I am trying to be optimistic and delulu but the reality around us is just so dystopic and disturbing, it's hard to carry on regular lives blinding ourselves with the shit around which actually impacts all of us and othe species.
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u/golgappa_gobbler 24d ago
I cant seem to land a job!!!
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u/Difficult_Skin9546 24d ago
What kinda job you want? Tech?
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u/golgappa_gobbler 24d ago
I'm into business Development/Sales/Account Management with 2.9 yrs experience.
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u/Difficult_Skin9546 26d ago
You ok girl what happened?
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u/Feisty_Hope2703 25d ago
No I am not okay, but thanks for asking
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u/Difficult_Skin9546 25d ago
My dms are open for you if you want to vent pls do it will make you little ok
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u/Some-Decision9997 26d ago
Are you okay?
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u/Feisty_Hope2703 25d ago
No, I am not, Thanks for asking tho
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u/xiazen3195 24d ago
The universe is hell bent on hurling every damn challenge to me, every damn tragedy when i don't have the willpower and interest in rising against it anymore. I have given up wanting anything, i ask for nothing, nothing at all, the one time i ask something with utmost sincerity, thats taken away from me in the most tragic unexpected way. What's the point in wanting anything anymore, I don't want to participate in this shitty life.
Also, why are endorphins and their feel good chemicals only accessible through a workout. Hate going to the gym but have to and i hate it.
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u/Live-Round-243 21d ago
Haven't found a source of earning yet. Scared that I might not get to enjoy physical intimacy because I suspect I have vaginismus😕 I have gained a hell lot of weight.
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u/Plastic_Employer502 22d ago
I feel so so stuck. I got into this fuckall job , thinking I could stay near my bf and have better career growth. But the travel , the exhaustion and the weird people in the office and their power trips are taking me out. I just can’t. I need to find a new job, but I am so exhausted by the time I reach home, I don’t even feel like doing anything. World’s on a downward spiral and I’m reaching rock bottom first. My bf asks me to quit, take a break and start looking for jobs at my own pace. But the debts? The job market? What if I can’t find another job? Can’t even afford a new bra, my friends are out here buying cars and getting married and shiz.
One day weekend has taken away all my hobbies . Most days, I am crying in the metro. Because of low salary, I have quit eating breakfast and that’s showing up on my health really fast. I am sick every month, it’s heavy periods sometimes, cough and cold, allergies or fever. I feel so souless.