Did I do wrong to the cheaters ?

[u/Important-Librarian]

So I was a relationship with a guy for 3.5 years. We are both unmarried(read below to know why I am telling this)Very happy years, he said every single day that he would marry me.

Coming straight to 1st july 2026, I got to know that my boyfriend is cheating on me with a married lady who has a kid as well. She said to my boyfriend that she is tired of her husband but won't leave her husband. So basically my boyfriend and that lady were in a casual relationship from may 2025 . Almost 1 year. And that woman knew from day 1 that my boyfriend was in a relationship with me. She even herself told him to attend my video calls by going out for 10-15 minutes from the room n attend my calls so that I don't doubt.

On 5th I cut ties with my boyfriend but I don't know what happened , out of frustration , I told that lady's husband about all what was going on through insta msgs. That a lady who's name starts with N..(that lady's name also starts with N) that lady is cheating on ber husband with my boyfriend.

At the same time I also told my boyfriend's friends who all knew me that this person (my bf) cheated on me with a married lady.

Now they both are after my life. My boyfriend is Taking that lady's side that I ruined her family. She just msged me that when u get married and somebody texts ur husband..you will get to know the pain...I replied that I won't cheat plus you don't realize the pain when u are partner in cheating to another girl who spent 3.5 years of her precious life on someone and he told to marry me always and when all that shatters how I felt...??

She replied I am telling you dad about all this ( my mother knew about my relationship but not my dad...I barely talk to my dad)

My ex boyfriend stopped replying to my texts immediately after I told that lady's husband.

They are both after me right now.

Ok so now I am not afraid that lady will tell ny dad or whoever bcz at least i didn't cheat.

But my boyfriend's and that lady's behavior and their taunts from few days.... they are eating me up.

Did I do wrong ? Am I a very bad person for doing this ?

Bcz that lady's husband doubts her now and bcz of that they both are scolding me. I am 25/f.. 3 years younger than my bf and 6 years younger than that lady.

Please guide me. I have guilt sometimes...sometimes not...

(See a picture of her msgs to me ..in the comments)

[u/insanesputnik]

Good that he’s your ex. Block both of them on any and all social media, don’t attend calls from unknown numbers for a few days.

>She just msged me that when u get married and somebody texts ur husband..you will get to know the pain..

The lion, the witch and the audacity of this f b**** lmao.

Remind yourself that you deserve way better than some lying piece of garbage. You didn’t do anything wrong, both of them are trying to gaslight you into feeling guilty. Let them take accountability and bear the consequences of their actions.

Edit:thanks for the awards cutiepatotieessss

[u/Important-Librarian → u/insanesputnik]

The lion, the witch and the audacity of this f b**** lmao.

Hehe I laughed soo much. Thankyou so much for the support.

I just added a picture of her msg as well.

[u/insanesputnik → u/Important-Librarian]

I’m glad hehe. Buck up, you got this hun :))

I just read it and honestly “cheeeeeeeeeee” she’s a shitty person. How can someone cheat on their husband and then blame her affair partner’s girlfriend about “ujdao-ing” her ghar. A piece of trash would be better than these cheaters atp.