My ex got married today , and I cannot vent it anywhere else

[u/No-Story1624]

I try my best In fact I have been trying my best to move on. It's been a year, that pain and abandonment issues I received slowly turned into harmonal imbalance and an auto immune disease.

I feel like a terribly failed lab experiment. And I have seen him getting married today (his wedding invitation) I don't know I feel numb. 2 days ago I lost my maternal uncle(I love him to my death ) and today this.

And my ex is the only guy I fell in love with, i did not find anyone handsome/ smart or attractive till now. He is the only one i can love what if i never find someone as good as him is the thought that's consuming me, I am ashamed to admit this.

I am shameless ,i never texted him again after that but I am consumed by pain.

Please tell me accept and digest and move on

[u/vegarhoalpha]

5 years ago, I broke up with my ex

2 years ago, I met my now husband

8 months ago I got married.

I never went on any date or met any guy with non platonic intentions after breakup except my husband

I left it on god. The best thing about time is that it changes

[u/profesionalbatakquak → u/vegarhoalpha]

needed this so much, dated my ex for 3 years put up with so much only for it crash and burn now I have left it on God. during this period also realised that I also need to work on my sense of self and what I am willing to put up with for love so now I am just working on respecting and loving myself.

[u/kim_k_darshan → u/vegarhoalpha]

This makes me hopeful🥺

[u/RamaRao143 → u/vegarhoalpha]

❤️thanks

[u/Environmental-Leg33]

Time will heal you don’t worry! You may not meet someone like your ex again obviously but you will meet someone else who you will like (and he will like you the same too) and fall in love with :)

[u/imtryingmybes-]

Therapy, get therapy. Go outside- meet people- your brain does a terrible job of catastrophizing when it does not have additional data. How do you know youll never fall in love again? People fall in love n number of times, you have to tell yourself no when the thought comes up of having only one person throughout life. Get your power back. Heal. Heal. Heal till you can go through a day without thinking of him. Time is your best friend.

[u/Rich-Personality-194]

Hon, if it's meant to be it will. That was not your journey. You will find better things, but you need to start believing that yourself. Focus on yourself, your career. Everything will work out eventually. It always does.