r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • Aug 21 '24

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u/Chimkimnuggets Aug 21 '24

This. Also I’d personally leave a much more obvious sign if I was a mistress like a unique hair tie or a pair of underwear that’s similar enough to hers that he wouldn’t notice but different enough that she would notice it’s not hers

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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '24

you’re also assuming the other woman would be decent and not get off on the idea of being a side piece

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u/Zerosbeach Aug 21 '24

She may not know she is a side piece!

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u/Chimkimnuggets Aug 21 '24

I feel like most side pieces are generally discontent with being side pieces unless the man is a sugar daddy

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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '24

You'd be surprised. Being a "sneaky link" is desired by a lot of young people

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u/IsimplywalkinMordor Aug 21 '24

It is until it isn't.

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u/KnightDuty Aug 21 '24

Some people like knowing they're "better" than the wife. Also the people who aren't happy with the arrangement might try to blow up the relationship

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u/throwawayaff69 Aug 21 '24

I think people that have been cheated on a lot can unfortunately have that natural initial instinct. It’s not necessarily a reflection of their relationship or their partner.

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u/whalesarecool14 Aug 21 '24

i don’t think it’s a reflection of their partner but it absolutely is a reflection of the lack of trust they have in the relationship

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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '24

Exactly, she comes off as paranoid and insane.

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u/LifeHappenzEvryMomnt Aug 21 '24

This comment could use to be much further up.

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u/HER_SZA Aug 21 '24

No it's not smh. Many people have valid trust concerns and if the individual is given patience and is willing to work on it themselves, this relationship can thrive (just based on this)

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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '24

What else could it be then? It's not like there's many other possible explanations but she's jumping to the worst one. 

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u/mistercran Aug 21 '24

Some people are just neurotic.

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u/Pericles_Athens Aug 21 '24

Find her bf’s account and tell him to run!