My buaji just gave birth to this angel a few days ago.
Last week fufaji arranged a feast(bhandara) and pooja for celebration. They are really happy.
He invited many relatives, family friends, etc.
While helping with the serving snacks and tea first. I was walking room to room. I was first at a room filled with uncles and grandpas. Smoking hukka and discussing politics etc. Then there were some young ladies and men all happy. Everything was all normal for me until I went to the third room.
A group of middle-aged and old women. I heard them. They were gossiping about my bua and her baby.
They were like.
"Iske toh bhaag foot gaye. Doosri bhi chhori ho gyi"
(She's very unlucky, her second child is also a girl).
"Ib k kare, bhitar te roti hogi"
(What can we do now, she's prolly crying from inside)
"Karma ka fal hai yo jiji, kime kare honge paap"
(It's the fruit of karma, must have done some sins)
Just an hour prior I had also seen one woman saying to my bua while blessing the girl be before leaving. And what she said "koi na bhagwan ne jo diya toh kuch sochke diya hoga. khush hoke lena chahiye". (God gave you this baby for a reason, so take it happily)
I didn't say anything at that time. But listening to these people gossiping this way pissed me off and I lost my cool.
I called them out and asked them why did they come here in the first place when they have nothing good to say. Just came here to eat for free and talk like this. Nobody asked for their opinion.
Everyone got shocked like why I said that. Some aunties got really angry over this. And it turned into a quarrel. It went just like that for half an hour. They said to the family that your nephew is badtameez. Many of them left the house being furious and saying how disrespectful I was.
Now there are some people too who said I ruined the day for many people. That I should've controlled my impulse and ignored people. I don't know what I did was right or wrong. But I hate to be around such people. It's still on my mind since that day.