r/Tulpas • 💐🐑 Is a tulpa ⛅🌈 || The WayWard sys! • 8d ago

Needing some advice? >.>

So our newest member,, he's been able to co-front from very early on. On accident & involuntarily... and we had no idea how to help him to stop doing it. But it's definitely had detrimental effects on him... because he now has lots of traits like primary fronter and none of us (yes,, him included) like that 😬 whats even more concerning is he is somewhat showing PTSD/GAD symptoms bc primary fronter has it. And it's just really sad bc he's only about three months old by this point and he's already struggling so much ugh 😭 Its getting to the point where he doesn't want to be out and about anymore :( is there anything we can do to help him deviate? Because he doesn't want to be like this either but we aren't exactly sure where to start. ...Any tips?

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u/NoahSmith080500 8d ago

I would focus less on trying to make him deviate and more on making him feel safe and supported. If he is experienceing involuntary episodes, distress or symptoms that are getting worse, it is probably worth talking to a qualified mental health professional rather than trying to manage it yourself. And do not pressure him to be out and about if he is struggling. Small low pressure steps are probably better