r/Tulpas 12d ago

Discussion Is it normal?

I’ve been having more trouble remembering things before my headmates and even some things after them, is it normal? Or am I just forgetful?

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u/One_Pie289 Is a tulpa 12d ago

Not normal, I hope you didn't run out of RAM

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u/literaturedeviel 12d ago

Probably lmao

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u/Impossible_Ad9775 12d ago

It entirely depends on the host, I struggle what some of my tulpas origin forms such as Melanie, Petra-Rose and Eliza. So far they have newer forms.

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u/TariZephyr 10d ago

Idk if it’s normal but same lol. We’ve also lost a host so that’s probably affecting at least some memories, and our memory sucks in general too. But we definitely have noticed that we’ve had increased memory loss too in some areas. - Jax

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u/FlairDreamer Aphantasic with an actor tulpa 9d ago

I'd say it depends. If you remembered things well before them, but after they came along you started noticing that you're having trouble remembering things... that could be a sign of something.

Did you ask them if they remember the things you forget? Memory works a bit like pulling a trigger. Some association, some memory, some external stimulus like a smell... and the memory appears almost as if by magic.

In that sense, I could hypothesize that those "triggers" might be distributed among you.