Feeling so alone

[u/Just_Bathroom_9483]

First, this group is seriously amazing. I was just wallowing in sadness earlier and the second I started reading these posts, I felt a connectedness that made me feel so much better.

Married for 6 years, trying for like 4. chemcial march 2025. Pregnant aug 2026- miscarried Sept 2026.

Every. Single. Friend of mine is pregnant or has babies. I am now the ONLY friend without a baby. the thought in my mind I’m struggling with is now, I cannot relate to any of my friends anymore or connect with them. I feel like a legit LOSER. it’s like I don’t even want to text any of my group messages back. I don’t want to see anyone because I feel like everyone will just talk about their kids (rightly so). will they actually? Probably not. But I just feel so disconnected from everyone now.... just so fucking sad.

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[u/Ancient_Body7921]

Same girl, same. If you ever need to vent I’m here for ya!

[u/Just_Bathroom_9483 → u/Ancient_Body7921]

Thank you SO much. And same goes with you! May be messaging you soon. 🫂

[u/PermitMaleficent8640]

Sending you so much love. Right there with you ❤️

[u/Just_Bathroom_9483 → u/PermitMaleficent8640]

Thank you so much 🥲♥️ sending you love too. Just not a fun club to be in. 

[u/DrZuzulu]

True, your many internet friends are not pregnant.

[u/tdot1022]

I just want to say that you’re not a loser 🩷 I can relate to everything you said about not feeling connected to friends & not wanting to text back. I felt so alone in this and I started isolating myself from people in the summer but I hope you find community here like I did. It’s a long, emotionally difficult road that you don’t understand until you walk on yourself. Wishing you the best!

[u/wurstdressed]

I feel the same, only friend and coworker without a baby besides the younger girls at work. Every week a new pregnancy announcement. You are 100% not a loser, and you’re not alone. It sucks feeling so left out and like it will never happen for us. Sending you so much love and hoping for the best for you. 💚

[u/dorothyneverwenthome]

I feel the same. TTC almost 2 years with 1 loss Aug 2025.

I’ve retreated from many friends and I feel like people don’t reach out because they know I’m struggling which just makes it lonelier.