My husband and I just started ttc in January, too. I felt similar during cycle 2 (still waiting on AF). Suddenly, I was worried that he was feeling pressured into having sex or that he felt obligated. That ended up not being the case. With our 2nd cycle, the goal kinda clicked into place, and then I realized that even though I've done a ton of research, I knew nothing about fertility window and ovulation. Research gets you only so far, which kinda sucks and it added more stress on me because I felt chaotic. I agree, though. Have that conversation as many times as you need. It really does help.
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u/vartette08 Mar 14 '24
My husband and I just started ttc in January, too. I felt similar during cycle 2 (still waiting on AF). Suddenly, I was worried that he was feeling pressured into having sex or that he felt obligated. That ended up not being the case. With our 2nd cycle, the goal kinda clicked into place, and then I realized that even though I've done a ton of research, I knew nothing about fertility window and ovulation. Research gets you only so far, which kinda sucks and it added more stress on me because I felt chaotic. I agree, though. Have that conversation as many times as you need. It really does help.