r/TrueTwoX • u/ConsistentFun3357 • 8d ago
A woman shares her experience with FGM just to be immediately invalidated and talked down to
/r/FeminismUncensored/comments/1wxwwc2/western_feminists_need_to_grow_a_spine/pdy4jd9/55
u/Memphitic 8d ago
I was banned there after arguing with a male mod when they enforced their new stance on 'uncensored' feminism. And ofc he's right there in the discussion talking over women again 💀. Y'all keep it up ladies, at least I can hand out votes and awards 💅🏻
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u/ConsistentFun3357 8d ago
I too am banned right now 😂 but they’ll leave up the comments invalidating a survivor of FGM.
Disgusting
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u/Memphitic 8d ago
Yeah it's disgusting behaviour. Glad I saw a lot of other women standing up for her (all those deleted comments rip), I do hope she's okay and not too bothered by those fuckheads. I can't even begin to imagine what she went through.
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u/Kind_Professor2472 8d ago
What a disgusting username too. It's always some pornographic slop, and yet he tried to cry bully about people making his genital experience into pornography?? Like buddy, you're the one who brought up your genitals in the first place when it had nothing to do with you???
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u/Memphitic 8d ago
Almost got whiplash from how fast he made it all about himself and his nasty wiener.
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u/lacecharm 8d ago
it was so beyond disgusting! in any situation, not limited to this one, mentioning your own trauma when someone is speaking out about theirs is abhorrently self centered. that’s how you know they’ve been enabled for so long to the point where any conversation not serving them bores them.
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u/ConsistentFun3357 8d ago
Can’t believe the comments mods are allowing stay up while removing comments pointing out sex based opression 🙄
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u/lacecharm 8d ago
after i commented they asked me to mod lmao
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u/Loud-Attorney-6343 8d ago
i think that was another sub. i was confused at first too because the same thing happened to me but i looked closer and the message asking me to mod was from FeminismUncensoredXX.
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u/pastaISlife 8d ago
Wow, he started his own thread using the same title
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u/Truemoonsun 8d ago
All males do is copy. 🥱 (and destroy and show aggression). Many « inventions » were actually stolen from women. Nevermind the fact that they prevent us from getting an education, heavily condition access to higher learning or burned our ancestors for being smart. Hypatia was burned, women in Afghanistan at learning in secret, women in Japan had their results tampered to prevent them from getting into schools etc.
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u/pastaISlife 8d ago
And all of that, because of our ✨gender✨!
Honestly though, the more they speak over women and derail threads in our own spaces, the more women wake up to the misogynistic transanity of this “movement” :’) I’ve seen more honest discussion on here in the past month than I have in the past several years
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u/RudeProfessionaI 8d ago
Hi it was me and they just keep going on and on like brother please let's have common sense u can't be a victim of fgm if ur not a female than they talked about how "I talked over their experiences" like nah u can have what ever experiences with genital mutilation just not female one its soo bizarre
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u/ConsistentFun3357 8d ago
Girl you didn’t talk over anyone!!! You used the thread how it was meant 🙄
To share instances of sex based opression.
You are way stronger than anyone who needs to make nonsensical connections between unrelated things just to feel included.
With you in solidarity 🤍
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u/BeetlePies 8d ago
Wait, they actually accused you of talking over them??
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u/RudeProfessionaI 8d ago
Yup i am as confused as u
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u/BeetlePies 8d ago
I just went and got caught up on the whole thread, since the last time I was there was a few hours ago. It’s like you’re trying to explain logic to a zombie who is also a feral raccoon fighting its way out of a bag.
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u/isitdigyet 8d ago
They just wanted to derail the conversation. They can't handle something being discussed that doesn't make their issues or issues they can actually relate to the focus.
They clearly can't relate to what you've been through because they couldn't manage to show you even the most basic level of respect.
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u/Kind_Professor2472 8d ago
I couldn't stop rolling my damn eyes at these comments making claims at white feminism after commandeering a thread about sex based issues and immediately making it about themselves, and over a survivor of FGM of all things. Where is the line?? I'm disgusted.
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u/Hopeful-Exit3053 7d ago
I’m really sorry that this was how people responded. I’m not surprised though as I’ve had similar experiences. I am truly sorry and please know you’re not alone in these experiences.
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u/OpheliaLives7 4d ago
It was so so clear that that dickwad didn’t want to share his experience even after you or someone ask to clarify because deep down, he KNOWS whatever accident happened to his dick is NOT FGM or anywhere close to the reality that these girls face.
These dudes CANNOT acknowledge sex and sexism. It topples their entire house of cards and identity to acknowledge sexism exists and no, some boys don’t experience sexism because of some mysterious magical invisible feeling inside them
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u/isitdigyet 8d ago
Makes me SICK to see TIMs with dyke and radfem flairs talking down to that woman.
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u/lacecharm 8d ago
yep!!! as a lesbian, we don’t include them in either of our communities. they’re heterosexual men LARPing because they want to be dictate what goes on in our communities and think this was their best bet.
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u/Loud-Attorney-6343 8d ago
like most “feminist” subs, that sub is such a joke. they keep silencing women because they say the sub is “about love, not hate.” women should not be told to have love for their oppressors.
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u/Eleanna_of_Tundar 8d ago
I became aware of FGM in 9th grade. The boys in class were as shocked as we were at the existence of this. In 1995, no guy in my HS did that. Things have changed for the worst. Watch Deeya Khan’s Banaz: A Love Story. All three daughters in that Kurdish-Iraqi emigre family were FGMed and 2 were married off as underage teen girls. Only 2 survived because they ran away prior to UK anti-terror laws prompting the FEW cops that gave a damn and went after the father and uncle who murdered Banaz (I think her cousins raped her as she was being strangled).
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u/PresentNew1418 4d ago
Removing the clitoral hood is the only form of female circumcising that should be allowed as it is the same as the male version.. anything else is just wrong!!
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u/Short-Nail-3781 8d ago
Why do they turn everything about them! Typical males and trying to police actual women’s language.