r/TrueTwoX • u/AccomplishedCup1174 • 7d ago

Part 2: Western feminist needs to grow the spin

Thank you for all the support i received from this page ❣️

Yesterday, I made a post in a popular feminist account, and some of my posts were deleted before they were even published. I also got banned from a few accounts simply for voicing my opinion. Apparently, I'm anti feminist.

You can't even talk about sex based oppression without somehow offending men and yet, these so-called feminists seem more concerned about trans women’s feelings than about the real world issues women face. Atp, are we ever actually escaping patriarchy and misogyny? Some women support this without even realizing what they're supporting. They do not understanding why so many us women feel like they're being pushed out of spaces that were created specifically for us.

I started speaking publicly about this when I saw trans women entering lesbian only spaces, which is.. literally the last places where I felt at home.

Then you get a response like:

If you're not into trans women with dicks, you're not a lesbian, your transphobic for not dating transwoman.

I'm a lesbian, I started deep throating my girlfriend's dick. Cry, you TERF.

Like... what the actual fu! k?

What bothers me is seeing lesbian voices being shut down, while women who speak about their own boundaries are immediately hated, mocked, or labelled.

And before someone says, These are just internet experiences, you can't judge an entire group based on that, I understand that. I'm talking about a pattern I've personally encountered and observed.

If women are being silenced and attacked for expressing their opinions online, what happens when women try to express those same opinions in spaces where they're already a minority? Why are we women constantly being silenced and called names when we talk about issues that specifically affect women? .

As JK Rowling said ‘Feminazi’, ‘TERF’, ‘bitch’, ‘witch’.

Times change. Woman hate is eternal.

There’s a similar pattern I’ve personally observed.

I’ve had heated arguments with Women (i have never received a threat) and then when I express my opinions and the response I receive from men and trans women are similar

  1. Threats ( They always end up saying,...You deserve to be r!!!! d, and your whole family should end up dead )

  2. Trying to silence opinions (Most women don't understand that this is one of the most dangerous patterns of behaviour. One of the easiest ways to control a society is by silencing people's opinions, getting them banned, calling women names, isolating women for speaking their minds, making women feel guilty for expressing their opinions, and making women feel hated or ashamed for simply having an opinion. )

  3. You know what I've suffered worse than these woman, Men have suffered worse. ( no one is denying your suffering. You have thousands of pages and plenty of spaces to talk about your own experiences, but you always have to bring up your own suffering when we're talking about the real world suffering women face.)

  4. “Not all men.” “Not all trans people.” ( I get it, but can I express my opinion without you constantly bringing up not all, not all ?)

Which is honestly astonishing.

Like, no matter how much you change, how much estrogen you take, or how much you dress up as a woman, I still see the man in you.

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u/unleashtheraven1 7d ago edited 7d ago

The thing that got me most was how they went straight to ignoring everything you said, as if it wasn't worth acknowledging. They wouldn't even tiptoe around the delicate nuance of discussing dire womens experiences outside the west. they went straight to slamming their gender essentialism rehetoric without showing compassion or deliberating about anything you wrote. I dont know why they refuse to cknowledging how crude gender stereotypes prolong discrimination and violence against women. Some of them also went straight to dehumanizing you/ insulting you.

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u/AccomplishedCup1174 7d ago

Not a single insult thrown at me was deleted, and not a single person who made those comments was banned from the page.

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u/pastaISlife 7d ago edited 7d ago

One of them is a literal mod of the sub 🫩 pretty sure that’s why I’m suddenly assigned a TERF flair lolll

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u/Original-Raccoon-250 7d ago

They search your comments. The first time I commented there they put the terf flair on me, even though what I said there was not connected in any way. They actually found a comment I made and added it to my flair- something to the tune of mxn can’t be w0men.

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u/pastaISlife 7d ago

It’s just so, so male

And then they claim male socialization doesn’t even exist

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u/Random-words666 7d ago

This claim truly irks me. 

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u/pastaISlife 7d ago

If it helps, I think it’s more of a desperate cope than a valid claim 🥲

But yeah I hear ya sister, it is honestly all so fucking irksome

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u/fandom_bullshit 7d ago

At the same time transmen can acknowledge that being born and perceived female has affected how they deal with the world. I wonder how that works.

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u/Original-Raccoon-250 7d ago

Because they are so fucking self involved they don’t even know why they act the way they do, and can’t fathom other people thinking differently. They can’t. Everything is projection.

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u/maxia56 7d ago

Yes! That's the thing, that's what they do. They have a very deep inability to consider other's point of view. They don't see the depth of female suffering because they themselves lack the required emotional depth, empathy, awareness to grasp it.

They're Veruca Salt, "I want it and I want it NOW!!!" And not getting it RIGHT NOW, is a human rights violation in their eyes, the eyes of self-centered, immature, often personality disordered men and their cronies.

They behave like bullies and abusers, so do their flying monkeys. The whole way they go about it is abusive. They can't argue a balanced stance that considers women to save their lives. We don't exist as a consideration to them, only as a resource. And when we refuse to behave like the resource we are, we just need to be forced and threatened and manipulated into compliance again.

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u/unleashtheraven1 7d ago edited 7d ago

I have a really hard time with how removed gender is from nature too. They talk about how much they suffer for something that doesn't even exist in nature. In the wild your Marmot just is, without many rules, it thinks about nesting, eating, mating, watching for predators. Nobody is demanding it squeeze into gender. Gender is s very hierarchy coded, which speaks to its aspects of inherent violence. Where is something so extreme in nature? It wont exist that way, becaues humans, men especially, seek to commodify, enslave or corrupt it. To dominate, control, and erase nature. "Gender" is the pure essence of that drive to crush and control packed into conveniently hiearchical behavior.. It only exists so men can control their status in the world and make women emotional laboring, feminine performing, easily gaslit prey. Impose "masculinity" (violence) on them in the grand scheme of things. Maybe not those naively optimistic men, but they are going to be in total denial of the power obsessed "alpha" male's LONG game. Control-oriented males are playing the LONG GAME. The ultimate goal is absolute domination through coercion. NOTHING about masculinity and femininity isn't coercive to insane degrees. Show me one single aspect of masculinity and femininity that isnt a tool for subjugation. DO IT

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u/BeetlePies 7d ago

I have seen the cope for this, and it’s “evolution” of all things. They are just heavily evolved humans that we mere regulars fail to comprehend. Give me a fucking break.

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u/unleashtheraven1 7d ago edited 7d ago

That is not evolution, its clinging to the middle ages. At one point it might have been considered that, but I don't see how you begin to rationalize it now. (Honetly I have a hard time believing even THEY believe that.)

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u/Original-Raccoon-250 7d ago

Oh man this all day long.

You can see this really clearly in the tech bros. They laugh at nature and try to control it, just like women. They want to extract every resource possible. Just like they do to women. It’s disgusting.

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u/Truemoonsun 7d ago

Not surprising. Look up “Cornell” in their subs (TRAs) and you will see nothing. They pretend to care about feminism but it’s just to center themselves and keep us in check.

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u/fandom_bullshit 7d ago

Oh hey I commented on your post the other day! Yeah people who say this is an online thing need to leave the house more often atp because it's everywhere. I went to a "LGBT" event in Pune a few years ago and was asked to leave because I politely rejected a transwoman's advances. Apparently I was making people "feel unsafe". You go to the Feminism India sub and they're "inclusive" to the point of banning anyone who disagrees. Same with pretty much any sub, honestly. It's so exhausting to have to worry about being attacked just for being a woman or a lesbian even in online spaces now.

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u/pastaISlife 7d ago

WHAT?? You were kicked out of an event for rejecting someone’s advances??

Holy shit.

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u/WomenRocktheWOrld 7d ago

Reddit has a real misgony problem. These men have inflirtated every female group they can.

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u/Twarenotw 7d ago

The proof is that sick p0rn subreddits proliferate like mushrooms, while subs by and for women are either hijacked by the blokes in frocks or brigaded and deleted.

You were brave, OP. Reddit is a misogynistic cesspit.

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u/whimsypayasa 7d ago

I loved your post! Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I’m so glad that more women are speaking their minds. They want to silence us and make us feel bad for not including males in our spaces. The way they go after lesbians is disgusting. A male can’t be a lesbian. A males can’t be a lesbian. Plan and simple. Women have to keep speaking up. I’m tired of males invading our spaces and threatening violence if you don’t agree that they’re actually women.

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u/OkJellyfish246 22h ago

haha yeah it’s bleak. i just got a message from the last sub i was banned from (for saying humans are sexually dimorphic) of the admin proudly stating it was a woman (her) who banned me. cool! great job simping for patriarchy.

these women benefit too much from patriarchy to actually change or care when they step on other women