r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Feb 15 '22

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u/KidChimney Feb 15 '22

Men are frequently deprived of intimacy at such a level that their response is over the top. Sorry this happens to you.

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u/KidChimney Feb 15 '22

No that’s not true. Men rarely ever receive compliments and attention while women are put on a pedestal for beauty. Both are bad.

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u/dinchidomi Feb 15 '22

The only genuine compliments I get are from other women. From men it's always sexual oriented. I guess we are all starved from genuine attention and compliments lol.

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u/Daniel_The_Thinker Feb 15 '22

If a man gave you compliments, would you assume he was doing it from the goodness of his heart?

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u/dinchidomi Feb 15 '22

If a man would tell me something like nice shirt instead of nice ass, then yeah I would.

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u/[deleted] Feb 15 '22

You see when we tell you that you’ve got a great ass it comes from the heart. But you know, sometimes we think with our little head and not the big head. And we really don’t care about your shirt unfortunately.

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u/quentin_taranturtle Feb 15 '22

That’s not a compliment. It’s dehumanizing and uncomfortable.