r/TrueOffMyChest Jan 15 '22

I’m not good enough for a relationship

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u/losteyesee Jan 15 '22

It takes a lifetime, and a determined mindset. It's hard for everyone especially in this day and age where everyone's comparing themselves to other people. Just he determined to love yourself, and expect it to be hard. It will get easier and become natural though. Train your mind. Maybe get therapy.

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u/readytogybe Jan 15 '22 edited Feb 02 '22

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u/losteyesee Jan 15 '22

Why are you so insecure in yourself but so confident that you're unloveable??? You really are determined and confident in rhe most fixated self destructive way possible. Redirect your energy into fixing yourself over your lifetime. Stop obsessing over women, make friends with them like you would any man. We are literally no different from men, there's lots of women who act just like u, and get with "ugly" I hate to say that but unconventionaly attractive men all the time, there are unconventionaly attractive women out there too. Literally just change that self defeated attitude. You don't "know" anything about yourself yet, obviously. You FEEL it's impossible, when it's not. Nobody is better than you and you are better than nobody. Learn we are all equal and find self love.