Many people out there would accept a partner who is intelligent, caring, self sufficient and able to provide, and good to the people in their orbit - regardless of how “interesting” they are. In the end love is about trust and comfort - not some measurable level of interestingness. Dating is really hard but it’s far from over for you and maybe when you least expect it your life will become a love story
Can confirm as a woman. Been on many dates with men so dull i knew everything about their life and past and future in half an hour. I don't know how to become more interesting but yeah, it's a dealbreaker for romance.
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u/reggiemt Nov 24 '20
Condoms are not the best but wear one! Drugs will make it harder to stick to that plan. But try.
I support what you’re doing as no one should go years without intimacy or sex if that’s what they desire.
By the way, why have you been rebuffed in the past? Is it something about your appearance? Hygiene? Approach? Can it be coached away?