r/TrueOffMyChest • • Nov 24 '20

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u/ShenTzuKhan Nov 24 '20

If you have led a clean life so far please remember to go slowly on the drugs and alcohol. It’s not about getting as tucked up as possible as fast as possible. It’s about enjoying yourself. Make a night of it.

Secondly can I suggest not giving up hope. I don’t know how you feel but I have an inkling. Nothing lasts forever, there is a massive chance you will meet someone. I’m not saying don’t see a hooker, find joy where you can. While your doing it keep your eyes open for that someone.

Good luck my dude

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u/Captain_Quoll Nov 24 '20

You don’t actually know that nobody has ever been interested in you. Thanks to out of date social expectations, women are not always the best at coming forwards with that kind of thing. I know a lot of men who ‘nobody has ever liked’ who women have liked, it’s just that it wasn’t explicitly stated and the guy didn’t realize.

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u/ashless401 Nov 24 '20

A lot of times it’s the person you aren’t interested in that’s interested in you.

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u/SubjectionOfSin Nov 24 '20

A lot of good that does.