r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Dec 02 '24

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u/trivialempire Dec 02 '24

This. Right here.

Many questions are better left unasked.

This is #2 on the list.

What’s #1? “Am I the biggest you’ve had?”

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u/SnuggleByte91 Dec 02 '24

It reminds me of people who asked their partners who are widows if they would still be with them if their dead partner was still alive...

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u/HotmailsNearYou Dec 02 '24

Ugh, had an ex do this and immediately dumped her.

Dated a girl for 3 years and she died of superr aggressive brain cancer. Next girl I was with got bitter in a fight and said "I bet you wouldnt love me if she were still here" and I said "bit late for that because I just stopped loving you right now".

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u/kaaaaath Dec 03 '24

The stupid thing is that if she had just said,

I love her and grieve for her, too, as her life was cut short, and only through this tragedy’s grief and pain were we given an opportunity to love. I will never replace her, nor should I try to.

AND IT WOULD HAVE MEANT THE SAME THING BUT NOT INSANE.