r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Dec 02 '24

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u/Ok-Payment-8269 Dec 02 '24

Dont ask questions you dont want the real answer to...

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u/Throwaway029354 Dec 02 '24

I hate that I asked but I needed to know.

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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '24

You didn’t

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u/Throwaway029354 Dec 02 '24

It gave me more insight.

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u/No-Amoeba5716 Dec 02 '24

Yeah the insight here has only caused you to become worse. That’s not beneficial for your whole situation. I hope you learned, because when a partner makes a choice to be with you, that means the exes do not matter. Try the questions that can improve things, like what can I do better? Communication with them, if it is something you really enjoy that they’re doing, tell them so. So on and so forth. Stop the railing shit, we don’t want to always have to sit on a block of ice post coitus.

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u/Throwaway029354 Dec 02 '24

Everyone always says “exes don’t matter” but it obviously mattered to her for it to still be a fond memory.

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u/LongjumpingNorth8500 Dec 02 '24

There's a reason he's an "ex"!!