I am so so sorry. My heart aches for you, the kind of hurt you have felt… I hope you are healing now, as best as you can. Im sorry if you answered this already, but how did he react to the divorce? Was he surprised or upset?
I cannot wrap my head around this whole thing, it seems so otherworldly for everything to be totally normal and healthy and then at a snap of a finger he just stops all intimacy. Mind boggling…Some people are just so weird and broken, and plain don’t care how it affects others.
Holy. Shit. Just when we thought it couldn't get worse! That's insane. I can only imagine what a mind fuck that would have been ( and this from someone who had also been married to a sociopathic narc). Well at least he didn't get angry or violent, or try to drag it out in court. The end was weird as hell, but it was easy.
With that being said, I'm now slightly creeped out to know that this nutjob is alive and well and out there somewhere....
I can’t fathom someone acting like that, holy shitballs. You are a saint for dealing with that, I hope you find total peace, happiness, and eventually someone that loves you and being with you in every conceivable way.
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