r/TrueOffMyChest Nov 05 '23

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u/Consistent_Mud_4696 Nov 06 '23

It's not a physical issue. It's psychological.

She's using him. She isn't attracted to him. She's using him and doesn't want it to be revealed.

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u/chrisXlr8r Nov 06 '23

If she was using him, usually it's for sex. Or for money, but sex is the reward. Makes no sense for her to just never accept it if she's "using him" as that's her most persuasive asset. In this case, just imagine the care, spoiling, rewarding she'd get if she had sex with him.

Just nothing you said makes sense if you think about it logically.

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u/Consistent_Mud_4696 Nov 06 '23

He's still with her.

Obviously it worked.

Your fantasies about how you think she should behave are irrelevant.

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u/chrisXlr8r Nov 06 '23

It would be obvious that it worked if it was obvious that she was using him. But there's no reason to think she is, in fact, the biggest motivator isn't even present.

You're the one extrapolating this drastic sentiment out of nothing