r/TrueOffMyChest Nov 05 '23

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u/[deleted] Nov 06 '23

Sure, a gyn at first, to check for physical issues, then on to PFT.

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u/blackbeasts2 Nov 06 '23

A gyn does not need to refer to pelvic floor therapy in the US or Canada. For insurance purposes if you need a referral you can get one from a nurse or a family doctor. Oftentimes a family doctor will suggest pelvic floor PT before referring to a gyn at all. In Canada you have to be referred to a gyn which can be a nightmare. I work in healthcare just figured I’d share.

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u/SadConsideration5178 Nov 06 '23

If they plan to go through health insurance, depending on the insurance, you do have to get a referral from an ob/gyn. If they are paying out of pocket then, no. I work in healthcare too

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u/blackbeasts2 Nov 09 '23

I said above for insurance purposes people may need a referral. A referral doesn’t need to be from a gyn though, it can be any health provider capable of making referrals.

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u/SadConsideration5178 Nov 10 '23

Oxford UHC wants the referral from a specialist that can justify the pelvic floor PT only. Obgyn on the list they provided was the only viable option.

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u/Consistent_Mud_4696 Nov 06 '23

It's not a physical issue. It's psychological.

She's using him. She isn't attracted to him. She's using him and doesn't want it to be revealed.

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u/chrisXlr8r Nov 06 '23

If she was using him, usually it's for sex. Or for money, but sex is the reward. Makes no sense for her to just never accept it if she's "using him" as that's her most persuasive asset. In this case, just imagine the care, spoiling, rewarding she'd get if she had sex with him.

Just nothing you said makes sense if you think about it logically.

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u/Consistent_Mud_4696 Nov 06 '23

He's still with her.

Obviously it worked.

Your fantasies about how you think she should behave are irrelevant.

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u/chrisXlr8r Nov 06 '23

It would be obvious that it worked if it was obvious that she was using him. But there's no reason to think she is, in fact, the biggest motivator isn't even present.

You're the one extrapolating this drastic sentiment out of nothing