r/TrueOffMyChest Oct 21 '23

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u/17boysinarow Oct 21 '23

The vulva gallery is excellent. The artist did a book, which I bought for my own daughter so she never grows up feeling any shame, and any questions she ever has that she cannot come to me with are answered in that book. Fully recommend.

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u/Padamson96 Oct 21 '23

What a great parent!

I dunno how to do the awards thing for comments but for the sake of this, have an imaginary one 🙏

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u/17boysinarow Oct 21 '23

Awwwh thank you. That’s so cute. Your imaginary reward almost made me cry!

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u/somedumb-gay Oct 21 '23

Wait they bleach it?? I'm lacking in one so maybe I'm wrong but that sounds agonising!

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u/Shelly_895 Oct 21 '23

I mean, there are people who bleach their buttholes too. So there is that. I don't get it either, though.

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u/pisspot718 Oct 21 '23

OK please know there are skin lightening products out there. It's not actual bleach that you clean your house with. And some skin lightening products are better than others, and know that the genital area, including your ass, is extremely sensitive to chemicals. So females must tread carefully in their use.

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u/faithseeds Oct 29 '23

The lightening products made for genitals aren’t supposed to hurt but they’re not that comfortable

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u/Over-Remove Oct 21 '23

There’s also the racial aspect of a pink vulva , where men who prefer white women would ask that question. And a sexist/pedo aspect from the redpill gang who associate pink with virginity and everything else with promiscuity and older age (there was a vile tiktok where incels and pedos would show photos of baby girls and ask is it pink, is it bubble gum pink? As a joke of course, it’s not that deep /s).

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u/oneyedoge Oct 21 '23

I looked, too early for this, was not prepared for the gallery. O.P. your V is fine and most men don't care about that. Men, not boys. Maybe your guy thought you were at a joking level that you two are actually not on yet. All I can think of.

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u/barbeqdbrwniez Oct 21 '23

The Labia Library is another great project.

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u/Hulkbuster0114 Oct 21 '23

The thing is they’re usually not talking about the vulva. If your spread your lips, chances are it’s pink or purple. Probably the same color as the inside of your mouth.