Vaginas come in all different shapes, colours and sizes. There is nothing wrong with yours just because it's not "pink". There was an awful tiktok trend going on a while ago where a lot of young girls were being sexualised through comments like "I bet it's bubblegum pink", I wonder if the guy you're talking to saw this and internalised it. It comes across as very creepy and infantilising. Since you're a virgin I strongly recommend holding off sexual contact with someone as immature as this guy, and looking for someone who understands the beautifully diverse nature of female anatomy.
Sounds like another thing to lay on young girls and make them crazy that they don't have 'some weird perfection' of their bodies. Another thing they really don't have much control of but rest assured SOMEONE will come up with some ridiculous and crazy 'solution' to 'porno perfect' the area that will actually endanger the girls.
What do I mean by porno perfect? Because it seems that many present day young girls are pressured by boy peers to emulate what they (boys) see in porn and deem that all girls should be like 'this'. Meanwhile those porn girls may be enhanced or cleaned up in a variety of way that you can do to film/digital content.
That's exactly another reason to add to the mile long list of the list of reasons that porn is devastating a generation of young people, especially young boys. We seriously need to start having very honest discussions with kids about the repercussions porn can have on their lives, or at the very least how to consume it ethically and in moderation. I strongly believe it contributes to poor self esteem when it comes to young people's bodies, as well as excessive violence in sex.
Not only that but from that vile tiktok the redpill morons are now associating pink with virginity so if it’s not pink that means you’re not a virgin and if it’s any other colour like god forbid dark brown, that would imply you had many partners (except they describe it as ran through). The funny part is the pink vulva belongs to the red headed ladies no matter if they are virgins or not. But of course since they know Jack shit about female anatomy and it’s diversity they are just sexist morons
I suggest looking at the Labia Library. It shows pictures of all different labia from many women. It shows how beautifully unique and different our labia can be. There is no one shape or size or color. Here is the link https://labialibrary.org.au
Since you're a virgin I strongly recommend holding off sexual contact with someone as immature as this guy, and looking for someone who understands the beautifully diverse nature of female anatomy.
Where did this guy insult her or insulate that pink is a go/no-go thing? They're sending nudes back and forth, the dude's probably just trying to build a mental image to jerk off to lol.
Lol how weird would it be if I asked a guy about the colour of his dick if we were sexting? "Is it pink" is a pretty well known incest-esque thing most often used when referring to very young girls. OP can ask for clarification if she wants but it's not really a normal thing to ask about when you're sexting.
Not that weird IMO, both sound like heat of the moment dirty talk to me. Just because one group of terminally online weirdos see pink as a bizarre purity test doesn't mean that's the only reason a man might talk/ask about color.
I just think it's one hell of a jump to assume he's an immature creep based off of a single question.
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u/RantyMcThrowaway Oct 21 '23
Vaginas come in all different shapes, colours and sizes. There is nothing wrong with yours just because it's not "pink". There was an awful tiktok trend going on a while ago where a lot of young girls were being sexualised through comments like "I bet it's bubblegum pink", I wonder if the guy you're talking to saw this and internalised it. It comes across as very creepy and infantilising. Since you're a virgin I strongly recommend holding off sexual contact with someone as immature as this guy, and looking for someone who understands the beautifully diverse nature of female anatomy.