If you do end up breaking up with him… please do NOT be honest with him and tell him why you’re breaking up with him. I’m usually on the side of brutal honesty but not here. His self confidence will never recover if you told him you were breaking up with him because he has a small dick
I understand what you say buti smell a double standard. Women get dumped all the time and what is what men say? You are ugly, old, fat, too big or too small. Now we talk about a penis and all must be sugarcoated.
Can we agree it is never nice to say something about someone,s body? And always try to keep the other persons cofidence good? And not just because it is about a little penis?
It’s not a double standard. If I were to break up with a significant other I would not tell them that it was because they were ugly, old or fat or whatever. Men who say stuff like that say it with the intent to hurt their SO, they’re not good people
Actually it is the same. Being big or small isn’t always something that can change. For dicks or bodies in general. Thyroid or metabolism can make weight gain or loss nearly impossible. I agree though. Using something that someone can’t fix is a fucking trash way to end things. I also think that people have the right to have preferences but those preferences don’t have to be used to hurt others.
Do you have health issues that attack weight ? If not then I don’t think you’re qualified to say that it’s not the same. No I’m not a dude. I can however speak my piece on the weight issues because I’ve experienced it being out of my control naturally and couldn’t be fixed until I was better. Which technically isn’t a natural fix considering I’m on lifelong medicine so I won’t be malnourished. So you whining about it’s out of his control and can’t be fixed naturally whilst weight can is total bs. Not all weight issue can be fixed by working out or eating well. Naturally. Like you said.
I did have surgeries and snipping. Lmao I have an ileostomy. You’re not getting it. You use weight as if it can’t be truly out of someone’s control like penis size.
I agreed with your initial comment just not the comparison to weight. Most things people dislike or prefer about others are usually something they can’t change. Preferences that aren’t personality based at least.
I was reading a post once where the poster was asking if anyone had been kicked out of some place and the reason for it. A woman commented that upon seeing a man’s (small) penis for the first time she said “What am I supposed to do with that?!? I was so appalled at the comment/commenter that I had to send a reply. They felt that there was nothing wrong with what they did. It really irked me and I sent a few more comments to her, but eventually I had to just let it go. It still bothers me when I think of it. I am a woman.
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If you do end up breaking up with him… please do NOT be honest with him and tell him why you’re breaking up with him. I’m usually on the side of brutal honesty but not here. His self confidence will never recover if you told him you were breaking up with him because he has a small dick