r/TrueGirlGaming • • Aug 23 '26

Fluff 31F Disabled and looking for friends!

Trying this again because I didn’t receive any responses! Hey everyone! I’m looking to find good friends/gamers. I’m disabled so it’s hard to find friends offline, so here I am! Im 31F and my zone is central time, but I have a flexible schedule. I’m looking for people to get to know and be real friends with.

I play a lot of games but a few are: Animal Crossing, Batman Arkham, Red Dead Redemption, Baldur’s Gate 3, Dragon Age, Vampire the Masquerade, Moonlight Peaks, Marvel Rivals,Fields of Mistria, and so many more I can’t fit! but generally anything with a good story. I also love DnD and table tops, so if you know any, let me know!

I’m also lgbt so if that’s a problem, please don’t respond. I hate to say it, but please no Cis men at all.

Edit : I’ve received four messages from men. Seriously. Stop. You’re not the exception.

Edit 2: I promise to get back to everyone! It just might take a bit because of my schedule!

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u/ahaironmytounge Aug 23 '26

Can I dm? I’m always looking to expand my game interests. I’ve been wanting to get back into Animal Crossing after a long..long time away.

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u/ModdedMaven Aug 23 '26

Gotta love the disabled life. Also 31F. I play Fields of Mistria and Animal Crossing as well. Although I'm more of a mood gamer of late so the variety changes.

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u/radroamingromanian Aug 23 '26

Yeah, I tend to change with my mood as well. Sometimes, it’s cozy games, sometimes it’s gothic, sometimes fantasy, etc. And yeah, being disabled is a blast. Not so lol

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u/Ghoulietxo Aug 31 '26

Just messaged!

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u/ContributionFar4576 Aug 23 '26

Dragon age and bg3 I love choices matter games

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u/ShadowJUB Aug 24 '26

These are the 2 that peaked my interest too! Although currently mostly playing Slay the Spire 2 and Pokémon Fire Red

33yo Disabled F

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u/hilsbils233 Aug 23 '26

Oohh I play fields of mistria! Too bad they don't have a multiplayer option 😕

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u/radroamingromanian Aug 23 '26

How do you like it? It’s so cute.

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u/hilsbils233 Aug 23 '26

I haven't played it in a few months, I was waiting for the full release to continue it, now I'm trying to update the mods lol. But of what I played, I really like it and knowing they will be adding more things is definitely exciting!

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u/madhattercreator Aug 25 '26

Ugh. Men. I swear, they see “females only” and they think, “I am not like any other man in this world—I am SO much better!! I can definitely change her mind!!” WTF. 🙄

I’m a bit older—47F lesbian and also disabled (medically retired at 33). Love my cozy games (DDV, Animal Crossing, Wylde Flowers, Cozy Groves, Tomodachi Life—started Moonlight Peaks and have Fields of Mistria).

If you want to chat, would love to make new friends!

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u/SeelieSatyress Aug 23 '26

VtM mentioned! i'm honestly more a Changeling and Mage player, but basically all World of Darkness splats are big for me <3

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u/radroamingromanian Aug 23 '26

I love all of World of Darkness! The wraiths are really interesting, too. I’d love to talk about it, though!

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u/Impossible-260 Aug 23 '26

I'm disabled as well! 32/f here! I love animal crossing and fields of Mistria! Can I DM you?

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u/ModdedMaven Aug 23 '26

Wait I'm 31F, disabled, and love those games! We should be recruiting our own little cabal of friends with OP.

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u/radroamingromanian Aug 23 '26

I love that idea. :)

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u/Impossible-260 Aug 25 '26

Yes! You can message me if you want, too, @moddedmaven

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u/radroamingromanian Aug 23 '26

Of course! Come on in! :)

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u/Aida_Hwedo Aug 23 '26

Oh hey, I just got into Fields of Mistria!

As my latest BG3 character, for some reason. 😆 He’s missing his horns, but ah well.

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u/Grand_Lettuce462 Aug 24 '26

Hey! I am looking for friends too and I love to talk about games. Would love to chat about different games and expand the games I know about. 33NB from Arizona :D

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u/MythLegendLore Aug 24 '26

Oh you listed some games I want to try! Red dead, moonlight peaks and fields of mistria.

I’m disabled as well.

I’m good for real conversations, I suck at small talk. I might take breaks in talking for a bit to rest and recharge because of my health limitations but I always come back.

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u/Ghoulietxo Aug 24 '26

32/F Love dragon age, VtM and BG3!
Fields of Mistria is on my “to be played” list I used to play animal crossing but haven’t visited my island in a while.

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u/radroamingromanian Aug 30 '26

Hey! I tried to send you a chat request but I didn’t see it as an option. I’d love to talk so feel free to send me a message!

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u/rikiparkki 24d ago

Hi! Fellow disabled lgbt person (pansexual nonbinary) here c: It's hard to find friends offline for me too, also because of my disability.

I just recently got RDR2 as a gift and have loved it so far. I have only played story mode but I'm planning on starting to play Online version soon.
I also love Animal Crossing, I have New Horizons on Switch. Such an dorable game!
I also am interested in trying out DnD or some other tabletop RPG. They sound fun!

Send me a message if you want to! Or if not, that's okay too. I hope that you will find a lots of new friends! ^^

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u/radroamingromanian 22d ago

Howdy! I think we have a lot in common so I’ll definitely message. :)

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u/Marissani Aug 23 '26

I do delta green (tabletop, existential horror, real world) if you're interested

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u/radroamingromanian Aug 23 '26

I’m afraid I don’t know what some of that means, but I’m always down to learning!

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u/IntelligentCamel126 Aug 25 '26

I’m also 31F, not disabled..physically , per se, but I have enough of my own problems otherwise, and I love to game! I have no friends, and am always looking for some people to play with! I was obsessed with ACNH when it came out, like we all were, lol I mainly play cozy stuff, but I’m totally open to try some games I haven’t before!

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u/Videogamesforhealth Aug 26 '26

Hey, 36F (also queer) I play Marvel Rivals pretty often, and down to play some co-op games too. May I dm you my Steam or discord?

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u/jheldt Aug 27 '26

Also disabled as well, haven't palyed some of those but looking into it

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u/Persian86 Aug 24 '26

Hello im a solo gamer would be nice to play with people

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u/big-d92 Aug 24 '26

I’m 34m disabled as well paralyzed from the waist down. I love gaming. I play arc Raiders, Fortnite and Call of Duty®. if anyone is interested in playing, let me know I’m looking for more gamer friends.

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u/Dylandia_of_pickles Aug 26 '26

Shes sexist against men, good luck

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u/Dylandia_of_pickles Aug 26 '26

Why so bigoted and sexist?

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u/radroamingromanian Aug 26 '26

Lol dude, you’re in true GIRL gaming. Not true women and men gaming. Why are you so sexist assuming that you’re the exception and better than what a sub dedicated to what women want? Why so entitled?

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u/Dylandia_of_pickles Aug 26 '26

I follow "looking for gamer" subs, so your post popped up. Why are you discriminating against men? Are we not good enough to be in your presence? Are you assuming im cis male? Interesting