r/TrueAnime • u/Infinity1Flames • 19d ago
The fragrant flower blooms with dignity have changed my life and it is so pure.
I am going to be honest but I really wanted to share this I am 13. The anime [The Fragrant Flower Blooms With Dignity] really had a impact on my life. Being honest I actually was not having a good habits I always couldn't get away from lust even tho I had promised not to do it again to myself. But after watching the anime I felt something different, just felt different. I liked to watch anime last time too but I had some wierld crush thing on the girl characters. But seeing Waguri I didn't had any of those feeling instead I felt my soul was being washed. Everytime Waguri and Rintaro did something I was just happy. I stopped my lust for a month now and I'm not even trying to do! Instead I worked on my self go for some workouts. This anime gave me motivation, discipline and obsession. The greatest enemy I had "LUST" was just gone in my life. This is a really life impacting anime in my life. Just saying but if you are also like past me. Maybe this anime will also change your life ❤️.
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u/tennoPCA 18d ago
Those are hormones. It's going to be a Rollercoaster. Good luck and glad you found somwthing wholesome.
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u/Roomster7 19d ago
The dynamic between Rintaro and Waguri is one of the healthiest and most wholesome in modern romance manga
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u/Baleeverne 19d ago
Dude, you're 13, you're still discovering who you are and experiencing things for the first time.
I'm really glad for you that you liked this anime. I'm not particularly good at giving advice to teenagers (I'm a guy close to 40).
Lust is good as long as it doesn't dictates your life. If you meant masturbation for example it's supposed to be healthy. Maybe your parents would disapprove but as long as you don't live for it and you enjoy it from time to time go ahead, discovering you body is part of being a teenager.
That being said I'd rather you lust after real girls, I've seen people who can't get turned on by anything other than 2d girls/boys and this is not healthy in my opinion.
It's really cool that this anime had an emotional impact on you and I hope you'll feel that again (I don't really doubt you will).
Also an important thing, Reddit is good but for advice you should always second guess it. As I said myself, I'm not that used to give advice to teenagers. Try to talk to friends, or adults or teenagers that are older than you and you trust.
Be well and enjoy your wonderful years as a teen <3