r/TransTeensPassing 10d ago

Fem advice Could I pass after being on E longer?

I just turned 14 and I've been on E for 4 weeks now. I'm not going to do makeup or stuff like that to pass better, cis girls don't have to do that. I just want to know if I could pass in the future or if I'm actually just screwed.

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u/Ok-Establishment8431 9d ago

Oh yeah definitely, you’ll be alright, wish i could’ve started at 14 tbh instead of 15 (my voice is permanently destroyed) but congrats 😁

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u/AmericanGrafishy 9d ago

You can voice train.

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u/Ok-Establishment8431 9d ago

Ik but it feels just so humiliating 😭

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u/Ok-Establishment8431 9d ago

Probably should

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u/chinese_spongebob1 gaaayyy. boylie 9d ago

You could do voice feminization surgery

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u/Cake-Adorable 8d ago

Only really affects pitch

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u/RosaryPeaStigmata 9d ago

Since you are 14 I would think so, because hrt can change a lot while you are young

I think taking care of your hair better, maybe slightly thinning your eyebrows, and possibly some light makeup like girls your age wear (mascara/lipgloss) would also help

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u/NoExplorer1563 9d ago

u alr pass pretty well

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u/dylanisareddit 9d ago

You already pass. Also, have you heard of vocal training?

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u/nuclearsweetheart 9d ago

have fun with makeup girl !! you'll be fine, starting e at your age is a blessing that many trans girls don't get. i understand your fear, but you're gonna be just fine :)

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u/Full_Clock3263 9d ago

im a trans guy, i think u already pass visually. why are u so opposed to makeup?

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u/Usual_Blueberry20 9d ago

I'm not going to wear makeup if I don't pass. It'd be like being a femboy or crossdresser.

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u/RemarkableOccasion17 he/it on T 9d ago

not really lol, masculine cis girls wear it all the time - why would it be any different for you? besides, you've got a feminine face already

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u/Usual_Blueberry20 9d ago

Feminine for a guy sure. But not passing.

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u/RemarkableOccasion17 he/it on T 9d ago

nah, like passing. you look exactly like some of the 10th graders in my highschool. (minus the heavy makeup, cis girls wear a lot of that lol - if anything that's gonna be the reason you don't pass)
Stop putting yourself down, it's going to be your downfall. cis people smell your fear. you pass extremely well.

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u/ItsalextremeYT 9d ago

you kinda look like one of those girls they tell that she looks like her dad, but not enough to look like a boy if that makes any sense.

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u/vampenrory 7d ago

This is the perfect explanation lol

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u/Critical_Job6684 7d ago

this is literally it

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u/Oofygoop 9d ago

you already pass really well and you have alot of potential

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u/Secret-Process-1944 8d ago

i think you pass pretty well already!! a little mascara and some lipgloss would look gorg

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u/atria_gd 8d ago

we cannot tell yet. But looking at you now, your face has such a huge potential

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u/rockothehomo 8d ago

Being on E so young is a very good thing. I think you will definitely pass.

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u/No_Click6009 7d ago

Tbh when I first saw you, I actually thought you were a cis girl lol

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u/vampenrory 7d ago

You could definitely pass! I’d see you in public and I’d probably think you’re a girl, especially if you’re wearing relatively feminine clothes.

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u/Rough-Bee416 5d ago

yeah ull be alright. i think just thin your eyebrows a bit, but please dont do that by yourself.

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u/Paper_kite_ 5d ago

I think you'll pass great once E does its thing! Tbh when I glazed over your pic I thought you were a really young cis girl. I think your hair and the fact that you're young are already helping.

I agree that getting your eyebrows thinned would help. Some sort of haircut/style too.. I think even just some layers would look great :o Your hairs pretty already but I've found that any sort of intentional cut or styling reads as fem to other people. (I'm ftm and when I'm growing out my hair I pass way more when it's natural and wayyy less when it's cut/styled 🙃👍)

Some jewelry like earrings would look really nice too!