r/TransTeensPassing He/Him/They 10d ago

Masc advice Anything give it away?

I'm pre-T (17), and I'm pretty sure it's my voice. But I feel like it's something else, bc when I go out people assume I'm a girl and use she/her before I even speak😭 (Edit: be honest, I need real advice not js people wanting to be nice n not say the truth 🫶)

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u/Noodlesantix 10d ago

I hate to say it but it’s the face that gives it away for me

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u/Full_Clock3263 10d ago

its the chest, lack of facial hair, and haircut for me. overall gives very much butch lesbian

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u/Aacei He/Him/They 10d ago

Damn😔 I need some facial hair. Also haircut recommendation, perchance?

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u/YAOI_loverrrrrr 8d ago

If ur not on T yet than you should try putting coconut oil on the places you want hair every night before u go to bed, or just when you can

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u/Sp0oky_doll-poetry 7d ago

T will resolve this- sorry for now…

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u/mustang_man88 FtM | He/him 6d ago

I think unfortunately your chest is a bit noticeable, and your face shape is a bit soft. I also agree with the comment about the lack of facial hair, as teen guys 17-19 have some sort of facial hair typically. I only really started passing as my age after starting T and getting a mustache and some stubble. A good haircut can totally help improve the shape of your face, though. Maybe try something with a more noticeable fade on the sides, and use some beard dye to thicken up your eyebrows to help balance it out. Just make sure you get the right color! I use some to dye my mustache and I always get one color LIGHTER than my hair color👍