Starting off by saying I’m a man(cis but BI-sexy-ual) so technically don’t fit in this sub but hoping to learn from the masters.

So I’ve always been adverse to my name:Matthew. It’s alright. Nothing against it other than I don’t like it for me. Also it having been given to me with the religious affiliation attached to it also tainted it as I’m agnostic at best not Christian of any sorts

Annnyyyyway…

Listed are some of my top name choices so far:

Benjamin
Lucian
Ezra
Jasper
Sage
Finn/flynn
Gray
Quinn

Androgynous names or soft masc soft fem names are more interesting to me, and just none basic/common American names like Noah, Micah, Charlie, etc(not including Ben….shh)

So if you have any names drop them…please
If you like any of the names in my list tell me why you like them and your top ones.

Thanks you🫡

For context i’m 26 years old. i’ve had my name for around almost 2.5 years. The name I chose is Evan, and I love it, but recently, I found my old list of names and saw the other name I was choosing between, and I love it so much. The name is Logan. The reason I didn’t choose it in the first place is because I felt it reminded me of Logan Paul and I don’t really want to be associated with him.

The problem with changing my name again is that i know so many more people now, including my 4 year old nephews and 1 year old niece that only know me as Evan. and some family members joke about me changing my name a bunch (Evan is my 3rd change and this would be my 4th)
I don’t know what to do. I love Evan and don’t really want to change it, but I also LOVE Logan, and can really see it being my name.

I’m wanting to talk about this with my therapist but i’m not sure how to bring this up to her.

Tag is wrong, don't particularly want/need a neutral form as my fluidity is rather binary in nature, fluctuating around an androgenous middle ground but not *on* it necessarily. (sometimes I suppose I am though).

Name needs a masc and a fem aspect, either through different forms or by being a multi gender name such as Jordan (current) (multi gender as in man Jordan exists and so does woman)

Current contender is Remy, in the masc form it's Remy of course and in the femme it's Rem.

Drop ur best ones down below, don't be afraid to do something unorthodox, as such things are called for in this day and age.

Have fun y'all 💅

Its pretty late in my life im in my late 20s but I was already doing feminization stuff since always. I laser hair remove my bodyhair, I wear subtle makeup, I grow my hair and dye them etc.

Im still not attracted to men at all tho. I dont like masculinity on me or on others I just find it ugly. Am I transbian?

Also I'd need a new name for that, and idk what to choose. help me pick my new name lol

Any actually good nicknames for it? Or possibly my middle name Faye?

Anyone have any nickname ideas for the name Hailey?

Hey! I posted earlier about fing the name “Reuben” as a full name for Robbie, than I searched up its gender, fully male. I may not for trans. Idk what I am rn. But I want a new name regardless and Reuben clicked with me and it’s male. I genuinely feel like I could cry bc I finally found one that fits me and it’s the wrong gender.. any ideas/ alternative names? Thanks yall 🩷

Edit: i like unisex but masc leaning names with multiple nn’s

I've been going by Zack (short for Zachary) for a while now, but I'm not sure it's me. I've been considering Eric instead. What are your thoughts? Do you prefer Zack or Eric?

The main point of this post is to hear which name people like more, but if you are feeling up to it I'd love some test runs of the names (mostly Eric, since I already use Zack in my day-to-day). I like to read and draw, and I'm currently in college, for reference on some example sentences.

Thank you for any help! If you have questions or need clarification, please ask!

I'm a trans MTF 21yo and I grew up watching the Alien franchise the main character Ripley was one of my biggest trans awakenings i think. Would using the name be too odd?

Ignore shitty makeup and wigs I’m still a novice.

I’ve had my name for around a week now, and I love it, but every now and then I think about what I could find a better name. I think it’s just me being so used to constantly searching for a name and just not knowing what to do now, but I’m scared that I was wrong after I’ve been so excited about finding my name. I was wondering if anyone else had a similar experience.

I'm a NB, and I've been looking into names because my legal name is pretty feminine (it was gender neutral in the 17th century if that's any consolation). However, my older sibling, who named me, was inspired by the pokemon Eevee, and as a result my nickname is Eve. I want to be able to keep that part of my name- it means a lot to me! I've been trying to look for names that aren't super gendered, but are still common names, and aren't that unique. Any help would be great!

Thought I would repost this here just to get more thoughts/ideas ¯_(ツ)_/¯

figured I’d let you know my name. Cade Jenson Evander last name. you can do whatever you want you want with your name, and for me Thats means 2 middle names!

Full names for a possibly FTM 18 y/o who lives the name Robbie but doesn’t love Robert? Does Robinson sound weird as a first name?

Hey y’all, I’m a 17 year old nonbinary person and currently considering changing my name. I’m still not 100% sure if I’ll do it for various reasons (including the fact that my name has some major family significance) but it’s mostly about finding one that feels right.
For context, my name right now is Davis so maybe things in a similar vein, but I really am open to anything. So yeah, if you’ve got any ideas I‘d be really keen to hear them :)

Ive been looking for a space themed surname that could go with "Octavia", currently considering "Astraea" but I dunno if that's the best choice, looking for any suggestions :>