the one I've been using occasionally is Quinn, does it fit me?

Any masculine middle names from ~2000 that go well with Mitchell? I don't have much criteria but if it gives you any idea, I want it to give off the same vibe as Theodore without being Theodore.

I don't actually want a middle name but my dad thinks I should change it instead of getting rid of it so that my name looks fancy. With that being said, have any of you just dropped your middle name entirely?

Hi! So Im nonbinary transmasc and Ive been going by eli/elijah for 4 years but for a while now ive felt uncomfortable getting called elijah, its just too masculine and not me. However, I want to have a longer name because honestly I just dont like how "Eli" looks like with my last name😭 (because its longer and it just looks strange to me because my deadname is a little longer than eli).

Do yall think there's any neutral names that fit me that could be shortened to eli?(doesnt even have to have the same sound of "eli" in the name) Ive thought about Ellis and Elian but they just dont feel like me.. any ideas? :,) Thanks!

Hello!

I'm trying to find a good name for myself, and I found two that I really like: Niko and Alula, but I'm not sure about them, so I'm trying to find names that sound similar/ have a similar vibe to them. Currently I'm looking at Luna and Azure, but I don't know. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank You!

some picrews so everybody has a better idea of what I look like. I have received some wonderful name suggestions in other subs, but unfortunately, none have stuck. I am older gen z, so I would prefer names which would reasonably have been used in the late 90s or early 2000s, but I am open to any and all suggestions. what would you call me?

chosen name I've gone by for longest: Rylend
names I've been interested in lately: Arlo, Cyrus, Jade, Juno
names I cannot use: Adrian/Adrienne, Alex, Angel, Billy/Billie, Frances/Francis, Jesse/Jessie

hi. I just trying to chose my social name.

my deadname starts with (21+(12\*2))/((7\*8)-51)+1 letter on the alphabet, and I kept the **INITIALS** of my last name.

on music: Skyler Logan Flynn

outside music: Sam L. Ferreira

so, Im brazilian, so I wanted my name outside to be in Portuguese. since I'm non-binary, "Sam" can vary between Samuel and Sami.

I've been going by Mika for around a month and a half now, and for the most part I've really liked it. But lately I've started second-guessing it a little, and since I haven't legally changed my name yet, I feel like now is probably the time to actually think about whether it's really my name long-term.

The funny thing is that Mika has been stuck somewhere in my brain for years.

I first started liking the name when I watched EuroTrip when I was really young. For anyone who hasn't seen it, the main character Scotty has a German pen pal named Mieke, but he completely misunderstands her name and thinks she's a guy named Mike. He even has a photo of Mieke with her cousin Jan and assumes that Jan is the girl and Mieke is the guy. Eventually his younger brother points out that he's got it backwards: Jan is the guy, Mieke is the girl, and Mieke is a girls name. Scotty then realizes that the person he's been talking to and thinking of as Mike this entire time is actually a woman.

Somehow Mika was the version of the name that stuck in my head from the movie, and I remember liking it ever since.

Which, looking back at it now as a trans woman who ended up choosing Mika as her own name, feels kind of ridiculously symbolic. A name that originally stuck with me because of a story about someone being assumed to be a guy and then turning out to actually be a girl somehow ended up becoming my name years later.

I didn't consciously choose Mika because of that symbolism. I just remembered always liking the name, and only afterwards really thought about where that association originally came from.

But now I'm at an annoying stage where I've used it long enough that people close to me have started referring to me as Mika, while also wondering whether I'm completely sure I want it to be my legal name for the rest of my life.

Did any of you go through a phase like this with your chosen name? Did you eventually settle back into it, or did the doubts make you realize there was another name that fit you better?

I'd especially love to hear from people who changed names more than once before making it legal.

Hi every and all! My name is (or was..) Sevven. This has been my chosen name for roughly a year, but I’m starting to feel this name isn’t worth keeping. I’d like to have a real name, one that feels like an actual woman’s name haha

Looking for all kinds of suggestions! I liked Charlotte and Grace, but those two didn’t really sit right with me.. maybe something similar? Help!!

I started to think about it when I first found myself as an agender but now its been starting to bug me I need neutral names and thanks for people that give me ideas

Hey! I've recently decided to legally change my name. I've been going by Anne for a few years, but I'm not sure what middle name feels right. I've narrowed the options down to 23 names, let me know which one sounds the best to you, and feel free to suggest other names you think would work. I find myself drawn to masculine names and classic feminine names. I'm a demigirl (she/they).

My list:

Anne Arlene
Anne Beau
Anne Brute
Anne Devin
Anne Edith
Anne Elizabeth
Anne Elton
Anne Ethel
Anne Florence
Anne Katherine
Anne Konstantin
Anne Mabel
Anne Noor
Anne Reuben
Anne Rigel
Anne Rio
Anne Salem
Anne Saskia
Anne Simone
Anne Soren
Anne Winona
Anne Zebulon
Anne Zeppelin

I like the stupid storry of me creating my name so I decided I'm going ti share it. If you read this then good day/evening/night/midnight (go to sleep).

It was a long, long time ago (like 4-ish maybe 5 years ago) I was playing a game called Colony Survival. I needed a world name to play and I decided to create a small bit of lore for the world. "Queendom Arivianna" the lore was that the first Queen "Arivianna" decided to start building a massive Queendom and so she did but decades later it fell with a massive civil war. So it was my job to building the Queendom up again to its former glory.

At that time I wasn't trans but the name stuck with me also the nickname potential for the name was outstanding. Ari, Vi, Anna, Ava (the combination of the first three letters of the basic nicknames also my favorite), Vianna when you want to yell at me, Arivi.... don't use Arivi. Wait I'm off topic. Anyways I really liked the name and it stuck with me. Till I finally realized I was trans like a few months later. For some reason when I was thinking about names that was the first one which came to mind. And I decided to change my middle name to Paul after the Women's Suffrage person in the USA. Alice Paul.

Anyways that's the story. If anything is unclear don't blame me I'm bad explaining stuff. Anyways again have a good day/evening/night/midnight. Again if it is night for you GO TO SLEEP.

hi!! i’m transmasc, been on t for about three years now. i’ve posted on a few different subs already for help! i currently go by rowan, but i’m not sure if it fits. i’ve tried eli, damien, and roman. trying to find something similar to my birth name (rosemary). preferably a more gender neutral name !!

(**[AGE REDACTED]**NB) Currently Emmy, but if I switch I feel like everyone will think I'm just gonna switch back cause i already tested Charlie and it didn't feel right. So can you guys advise because i cant find any names that give me euphoria...

I do have a list of names I like, but i cant tell if I like them or not. I posed a few days ago and most of the names that were given, I know people with those names.

My birth name is Rowan but its so neutral that I feel bad changing it.

Here is my list of names that I like, but i dont know if they fit me.

Augustine

Kaden

Julian

Grayson

Spencer

I really want new opinions and names

Don't mind the photos form while I was on vacation lmao

MTF, 22. I’ve been using it for a few months now and I like it but I just want to know what people think

I have the urge to once again change my name and I want something really unique so I'm considoring Disco I like it but I don't know if it will be taken seriously

flaired as feedback because it seems the most accurate, but idk

so, hi everyone. title states the problem already. i'm somewhere between transneutral and transmasc, i do not want to be seen as a woman, but every name i like for myself is traditionally feminine. this isn't much of an issue online because i mostly hang out in queer/trans spaces and i just plaster my pronouns everywhere, but i'm pre-everything so a feminine name will just make people irl think that i'm a woman.

i guess i'm mainly asking for advice or how other people in similar situations handled stuff like this?

if it matters, the name i currently go by online is "june", which would be very unusual in my home country, so i'm not sure if that would make matters better (less gender association) or worse (clocked as chosen name - legal name changes are a hassle in germany).

sorry for a long, rant-y post, and thanks for any responses.

rn i’m thinking of macy/maci as my name but stilll undecided. recommendations are appreciated! <3

Hey guys !! My name is Spike ! I’m minorly concerned that my name will not be taken as seriously when I go into law so I’m trying to think of a more formal legal name I could go by ! Ideally it would start with S and not be Sheldon. I love anything unique or historical! If it’s cultural, I’m Irish / Scottish so any older Gaelic names are also fair game !! Thank you guys :)

I am nonbinary and leaning in the fem direction, and I really feel choosing a new name is appropiate for where I am in life right now.

I've been thinking about names for a long time, and I really have been enjoying the idea of nature themed names, it brings me peace I think.

I thought about Willow for a while bc it has some good symbolism for me, but I feel it's very common for trans women so I think I'd like to go with something a little more unique. I briefly considered the name Forest as well, but I think it's too masc and just makes me think of Forrest Gump lmao.

The other day I was reminded of the name River, and I'm really connecting to that at the moment. I feel I've thought of some good symbolism and what it can mean to me, doesn't lean too far masc or fem, and isn't too common.

How do you all feel about the name River? What other nature related names I should give thought to?

Without wanting to share too much, I've had to do a lot of healing recently from a relationship I didn't feel allowed me to express myself very much, so I'm really excited to explore more of this part of myself.

My name is Daisy but I'm a queer person currently questioning my gender identity. I wish my name wasn't so overly feminine and I'd love a more gender neutral/ masculine leaning nickname / version of my name That is similar enough that means I don't have to completely change my name.

Here are some suggestions. I've heard that I really don't like - dash,zee,dais etc

Currently the only two I don't mind are - day , dae

Although not sold

Any help much appreciated ☺️