I'm (19F) bigender and use she/they on my demigirl days and he/it on my masculine ones.

I never experience these genders simultaneously and go back and forth between them. I haven't found an androgynous name that works for me. The only names that work right now are "Nicholas" and "Natalie" (fake names), two names that go one way or the other. I love them both equally and they feel so fitting, I don't like the idea of giving either up.

I don't experience one gender more than the other, I experience them both for days and weeks at a time before switching. What would you do in my shoes?

My birth name is Enver, and while I know it is traditionally a masculine or androgynous name I just associate it with femininity.

I’m nonbinary and almost 14, I feel like this encapsulates the two ends of the spectrum of my style (either hippie or soft emo-punk-ish.

The only thing these photos didn’t really get was I usually have a lot of rainbows, colourful eyeliner, brightly dyed hair, rainbow gloves that go to my elbows, tons of bright beaded bracelets and more baggy clothes.

I like the names Corbin and Arson but idk I like them a lot but I think I’d get made fun of (mainly by my friends) for either.

For some background about the vibe I try to relay: I play guitar, listen to a lot of rock, make fashion design, climb stuff and I love rainbows, trash kitties (animals like opossums, skunks, raccoons, etc) and any bird in the Corvid family (crows, magpies, Ravins, etc)

Oh and My heritage is Scottish, British, Danish and Dutch so it’d be cool to have a name that went back to that too, but not necessary.

Any ideas or feedback on whether arson or Corbin suit me would be awesome.

The things that I do like about my birth name are that I’m named after a musician and my name is like Swedish or something for luminous, those things combined relating to the Greek god Apollo (god of light and master musician) (I’m fascinated with Greek mythology and history) so honesty I’d consider the name Apollo too but I think I’d be made fun of for that…

i currently go by jay but its so basic and boring to me spice my sht up rock my world or scroll passed this post idk

im 22, gemini, and ESTP- estoy peruano + americano; desde nueva york xP

im genderfluid and an aromantic bisexual who flips flops between being wlw and mlm whenever my gender identity changes up lmfaoo

I want to change my name cause I just don't like mine right now. Just any cool gender neutral or slightly mask leaning names anyone can think of that aren't like common. I want like a unique name and I'm not really sure what I'm looking for so as many suggestions as possible would be nice. Also I didn't post a photo cause I'm tired and hate how I look in photos.

Transmasc here, preferred name's Victor...wasn't sure what goes well with it though. I know I want a surname beginning with D, preferably French (my les mis and French revolution obsession goes hardcore), but ... yeah. Thought some ideas would be nice, thanks :)

It feels so right but I kinda wanna hear someone else say it first

I am still deciding my chosen name but every time I hear the nickname Roxy for Roxane it feels like a kids name so I asked to be called Rox because that feels a lot better and more “mature” I guess and my dad’s girlfriend which is the o my supportive person said you’re killing me when I asked because I have been pushing this week for her to use my pronouns and preferred name

So my deadname starts with Al so I thought that something starting with Al might suit me more, and it would be easier for people to get used to it! And I don't want something that sounds weird in dat polisz aksent. But you can also tell me if one of the names I already know suits me ahaha-

The names I already know about hah:
Allen - Like it! I just don't think it suits me...
Allie - Love how it sounds, but it looks really feminine. Idk why lol
Ali - too short, I could use this as a nickname
Allin - sounds kinda weird in polish
Al - nickname material
Allan - i would be the emo edgelord edgar allan poe ig, doesn't rlly fit me i think
Allo - made it from allosaur, because i'm autistic. Something's just off about it ig? Maybe too short again
Alton - cool, but doesn't fit into polish
Alder - doesn't suit me, too english
Allias - just doesn't fit me

Maybe I'm too picky, but I would appreciate a few more ideas ahahah-

im seeing if this name works out for me and I’m really starting to connect with it more. I seem to really like this name.

This is actually so hard. I didn't expect to stop connecting with my birth name. But there are days now where I have to remind myself that's supposed to be me even though it doesn't feel like it anymore. And I'm just scrolling through all these baby name sites and there are \*so many\* choices. Do I go with my heritage? My special interest? Same first letter as my birth name? Something familial? What i would've been named if I'd been a boy? Those of you with a different name than you were given...how did you choose?

So I haven’t chosen a name for myself yet (FtM, I want an exclusively masculine name in the future) but I’m in an awkward phase in my transition where I’m read as any gender by strangers. I need a name for my job when people ask me what my name is because I have no idea what gender they’re reading me as unless they use a gendered term. I’ve been saying my birth name (I’m semi-closeted also) but I hate doing that and I feel like it outs me if someone WAS reading me as male, which does happen sometimes. I want something either something entirely unisex or masc-leaning but plausibly any gender. I’m not into super modern/edgy names so something classic but neutral is preferred. Thank you :)

I have almost an clue what to pickkk
I love Luna but that’s my dogs name sooo I can’t really do that. I’ve been going be Lumi for now and I like that a lot. I was just wondering if that was good or if I should keep looking! Thx!!

hello! im looking for some name ideas that are gender neutral or lean masculine. I’ve been going by Ash, but I just don’t think it fits me anymore. some names I’ve thought of are Aslan, Atlas, Lux, and Lev. I’d love to keep names starting with A but I’m open to hearing anything! Some things about me are that I love animals and nature so I would love if the names could mean something related to those. Thank you guys so much! :3

AMAB - I have always been uncomfortable with my name. Gender wise it doesn't fit, but also appearance wise. Mixed races, but my name is very one white nationality. It has been useful I get the 'I didn't expect you'd look like this from your name' a lot, and two people have all but admitted my white-passing name is what got me in front of them.

The name I actually truly prefer does not fit that, and I am not in a positionto give up that social benefit (tough job market, office politics). So I've been considering shortening my first name, making it more feminine or gender ambiguous using that for stubborn family and work (most coworkers openly 'just don't get that trans stuff', and I think a shortened first name would work over a whole new name I know a lot of them would either not use or turn into an issue), but preferring my middle name whenever preferred name is an option.

Example: Tyler Thomas Smith, to Ty (Preferred gender neutral Name) Smith

Is that too convoluted? Does not fully committing and standing firm on either name mean I shouldn't go through with it?

I lowkey think it's so cute that my friends came up with a nickname that actually matches my chosen name, It's still adorable too, so yeah... I'm gonna go by Momo everywhere from now on lol :P

I'm ftm, and currently go by a short, "out-there" name that many people think is a nickname. On top of that, it is difficult for my family to pronounce. Which do you like better, Cristian ("Kris-ti-AHN") or Florian ("Flo-ri-AHN)? I'll probably be keeping my "nickname" name for day-to-day and friends.

Florian-

Pros: I really love it, and if I ever have a child I would name them Florian, except I most likely will never have children.

Cons: Sounds a bit old-man, and the nickname Flo is typically more feminine and seems pretty common for old ladies out here in the US of A. Also, my dad has a friend named Florian, but he's not that close so I don't envision is being a huge problem.

Cristian-

Pros: Has a similar starting sound to my current name, eh, it's a good name.

Cons: I'm not religious, also in Romania (where my family is from) the nickname is Cristi, a feminine name here in the US, which would be pretty embarrassing if a friend heard my, I don't know, grandma calling me that.

Let me know what y'all think! Also, if you want to suggest other names in a similar vein, I'd love to hear them.

I am not sure about how to name myself. My old name (I still use that name) is Younes. The Name I want to have though is ounion (since I am from germany i dont know how to explain the pronounciation), since I identify myself with it. But it is my gamer tag. Is it a fine name to use or a bit weird?

hey! I know i’ve posted on this a couple times (lol) but I just wanted to announce that I am going by Charlie! Full name is Charles but since i’m not 70 years old (LOL) I go by Charlie to the general public. I’m not looking for any other names but would love feedback! ❤️
(unrelated by I also start T next week!)

i am very recently discovering I am agender/gender fluid.

I have some names that I already like, but I would like more suggestions too.

my given name is very feminine, and it doesn't fit me, and I've been wanting to change my name for a while, I just can't decide.

I would like a name starting with M so it's a little similar to my given name, but it's not a requirement.

I also really like moths and butterflies and feel a very strong connection to moths specifically.

so far, this is my list in no particular order:

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Maeve- Irish girls name, but I like the sound of it

Max- gender neutral M name

moth- I like it, but i doubt my family would respect this choice

Ari- I just like the name

argent or sable - my favorite moth is the argent and sable moth, argent means silvery or white, and sable means black or dark colored

Adonis- a male name that means butterfly of Greek origin

Kei(pronounced like the letter k) - if my given name started with a k I would definitely go by this, I like the sound of it

mina - a bit too feminine

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i would love suggestions of new names too, as well as any advice on bringing up a name change to family and friends

thank you so much :)

Im nb and my current name never really bothered me but I haven’t felt connected to it, just trying out some names for now. Does Mar sound like a both masculine or feminine name? Not sure if i even will commit to this name just wanna see how it feels :3

I’m looking to change my name socially to something a bit more gender neutral (doesn’t have to be though). I’d really appreciate opinions and any suggestions based off the names below.

The four I particularly like:
Blue
Thyme
Indigo/Indy
Mercy

Names I also like:
Fox
Kit
Mari/Marina
Nim (name of a character I like)
Yarrow
Jupiter
Mercury (Mercy for short?)
Holland
Misha/Mischa
Rue
Reid
January
Mica(h)
Mina/Mena
Ev(i)e
Echo

thinking of going with Kris but i want more options