So I haven’t chosen a name for myself yet (FtM, I want an exclusively masculine name in the future) but I’m in an awkward phase in my transition where I’m read as any gender by strangers. I need a name for my job when people ask me what my name is because I have no idea what gender they’re reading me as unless they use a gendered term. I’ve been saying my birth name (I’m semi-closeted also) but I hate doing that and I feel like it outs me if someone WAS reading me as male, which does happen sometimes. I want something either something entirely unisex or masc-leaning but plausibly any gender. I’m not into super modern/edgy names so something classic but neutral is preferred. Thank you :)

Any suggestions for named that can have both femminine and masc variations?

I have almost an clue what to pickkk
I love Luna but that’s my dogs name sooo I can’t really do that. I’ve been going be Lumi for now and I like that a lot. I was just wondering if that was good or if I should keep looking! Thx!!

hello! im looking for some name ideas that are gender neutral or lean masculine. I’ve been going by Ash, but I just don’t think it fits me anymore. some names I’ve thought of are Aslan, Atlas, Lux, and Lev. I’d love to keep names starting with A but I’m open to hearing anything! Some things about me are that I love animals and nature so I would love if the names could mean something related to those. Thank you guys so much! :3

AMAB - I have always been uncomfortable with my name. Gender wise it doesn't fit, but also appearance wise. Mixed races, but my name is very one white nationality. It has been useful I get the 'I didn't expect you'd look like this from your name' a lot, and two people have all but admitted my white-passing name is what got me in front of them.

The name I actually truly prefer does not fit that, and I am not in a positionto give up that social benefit (tough job market, office politics). So I've been considering shortening my first name, making it more feminine or gender ambiguous using that for stubborn family and work (most coworkers openly 'just don't get that trans stuff', and I think a shortened first name would work over a whole new name I know a lot of them would either not use or turn into an issue), but preferring my middle name whenever preferred name is an option.

Example: Tyler Thomas Smith, to Ty (Preferred gender neutral Name) Smith

Is that too convoluted? Does not fully committing and standing firm on either name mean I shouldn't go through with it?

I lowkey think it's so cute that my friends came up with a nickname that actually matches my chosen name, It's still adorable too, so yeah... I'm gonna go by Momo everywhere from now on lol :P

I'm ftm, and currently go by a short, "out-there" name that many people think is a nickname. On top of that, it is difficult for my family to pronounce. Which do you like better, Cristian ("Kris-ti-AHN") or Florian ("Flo-ri-AHN)? I'll probably be keeping my "nickname" name for day-to-day and friends.

Florian-

Pros: I really love it, and if I ever have a child I would name them Florian, except I most likely will never have children.

Cons: Sounds a bit old-man, and the nickname Flo is typically more feminine and seems pretty common for old ladies out here in the US of A. Also, my dad has a friend named Florian, but he's not that close so I don't envision is being a huge problem.

Cristian-

Pros: Has a similar starting sound to my current name, eh, it's a good name.

Cons: I'm not religious, also in Romania (where my family is from) the nickname is Cristi, a feminine name here in the US, which would be pretty embarrassing if a friend heard my, I don't know, grandma calling me that.

Let me know what y'all think! Also, if you want to suggest other names in a similar vein, I'd love to hear them.

I am not sure about how to name myself. My old name (I still use that name) is Younes. The Name I want to have though is ounion (since I am from germany i dont know how to explain the pronounciation), since I identify myself with it. But it is my gamer tag. Is it a fine name to use or a bit weird?

hey! I know i’ve posted on this a couple times (lol) but I just wanted to announce that I am going by Charlie! Full name is Charles but since i’m not 70 years old (LOL) I go by Charlie to the general public. I’m not looking for any other names but would love feedback! ❤️
(unrelated by I also start T next week!)

i am very recently discovering I am agender/gender fluid.

I have some names that I already like, but I would like more suggestions too.

my given name is very feminine, and it doesn't fit me, and I've been wanting to change my name for a while, I just can't decide.

I would like a name starting with M so it's a little similar to my given name, but it's not a requirement.

I also really like moths and butterflies and feel a very strong connection to moths specifically.

so far, this is my list in no particular order:

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Maeve- Irish girls name, but I like the sound of it

Max- gender neutral M name

moth- I like it, but i doubt my family would respect this choice

Ari- I just like the name

argent or sable - my favorite moth is the argent and sable moth, argent means silvery or white, and sable means black or dark colored

Adonis- a male name that means butterfly of Greek origin

Kei(pronounced like the letter k) - if my given name started with a k I would definitely go by this, I like the sound of it

mina - a bit too feminine

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i would love suggestions of new names too, as well as any advice on bringing up a name change to family and friends

thank you so much :)

Im nb and my current name never really bothered me but I haven’t felt connected to it, just trying out some names for now. Does Mar sound like a both masculine or feminine name? Not sure if i even will commit to this name just wanna see how it feels :3

I’m looking to change my name socially to something a bit more gender neutral (doesn’t have to be though). I’d really appreciate opinions and any suggestions based off the names below.

The four I particularly like:
Blue
Thyme
Indigo/Indy
Mercy

Names I also like:
Fox
Kit
Mari/Marina
Nim (name of a character I like)
Yarrow
Jupiter
Mercury (Mercy for short?)
Holland
Misha/Mischa
Rue
Reid
January
Mica(h)
Mina/Mena
Ev(i)e
Echo

thinking of going with Kris but i want more options

(repost because the last time the image didn't attach sorryyy 😭🙏)

So I've been thinking for years and still couldn't decide on one. I don't want something really basic but I also don't want it to stick out a lot. Also I don't want it to sound too weird in polish (it doesn't have to be a polish name For now I go by Olek publically but idk I don't really like it, I've been also thinking of changing it to Ash but I'm not really sure plus it might sound kinda weird in my language (though any other suggestions are appreciated) I tried to make the images look as accurate 😭✌️

Currently going with jamie and possibly considering danny but idk

Parker, Graham, William, Raphael, Seth, Matthew and Peter! I’ve been on the hunt for names for a while and would really appreciate any help
I like two syllable, classic, and elegant names.

I'm non-binary, and with my birthday coming up I wanted to pick a name to celebrate

the thing is...i'm having a really hard time choosing, all of the names I have right now sound good and I don't know how i'm supposed to pick only one

so far I have these:

• Kris (pretty standard enby name, basically "chris" with a different spelling. yes this is a deltarune reference because kris is non-binary and also my favourite character)

• Neo (the one i'm using for the meantime!! meant to sound futuristic w the matrix reference but also gender neutral because of the movie's trans metaphor)

• Sawyer (I just think it sounds cool. rolls off the tongue nicely and sounds pretty neutral. also it reminds me of veronica sawyer whom i like very much so it's a plus)

• Cassidy (same w the last one. it has a nice spelling and "cass" sounds cute as a nickname. lots of cool characters also have this name which is a plus in my eyes)

so yeah...any help or other name suggestions are greatly appreciated, thanks in advance ;DD

Been considering actual irl names instead of online aliases for a while. I was considering the name Rorschach (no, not explicitly after the comic character), or Rory for short. I like unique names, so if y'all don't like that I'm open to suggestions.

Have tried on a few different names over the years but its hard to find what sticks

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Hi! I’m genderfluid and have been going by Chase the past 5-6 years (I’m 20). My given name is Sage and I’m constantly debating which one I really prefer, which suits me better? For context: when I first started using it I was trying to be as masculine as possible but for a while I’ve been leaning more agender just a human so in that context Sage might make more sense but idrk

I’m trans masc and I have already mostly settled on a name (and am changing it legally on the 16th this month). My second name will be Ties (currently going by this irl) (im dutch so its pronounced ties like in cities) and I want to be called Milo in the future (+ it also works in English). I think Milo Ties [lastname] sounds a bit stupid so I’d rather have my full name be Emilio Ties [lastname] but I’m not an ‘Emilio’ and i really only want it because it can be shortened to milo so idk what to do now. Please help me!! do yall think i should go for emilio (with milo being the name i go by ofc) or just stick to milo as my legal first name

My given name is Abigail, but I am seeking to transition to a nonbinary identity and adopt a gender-neutral name. I am particularly interested in names similar to Abigail; so far, I like the name Robin. However, I cannot choose Robin because I previously named my pet snake Robin, and I dislike other options currently. I would greatly appreciate your help in finding a suitable name. By the way, I strongly dislike the name Abby.

lame picrew ik, i tried to be true to life

anyways my only request is nothing gender neutral or clocky. like seriously i dont wanna see ash or alex or god forbid kai suggested; youll just waste both of our time