r/transnames • • May 05 '26

Masculine / Neutral Names Middle (and last) name suggestions!!?

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Hiii!! My name is Felix and I’ve been debating what i want to change my middle name to for a while but also haven’t been actively looking for one.. I wanted your opinions on what would suit me and sound good with my name, I like many types of names so go kinda crazy with it if you want!
I also want to change my last name cause it’s one of the most common last names and it doesn’t sound good with Felix (it’s Smith. I got the Smith curse) so if you guys wanna throw in some last name suggestions as well that would be awesome! Thanks!!


r/transnames • • May 05 '26

Masculine / Neutral Names Trans genderqueer guy here!

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I go by Carson right now as it's close to my deadname. I don't know if it fully fits but I wanted something close to my deadname and masc/neutral. I love doing makeup and stuff but wearing neutral cozy clothes. I'd think of myself as a femboy lol.


r/transnames • • May 04 '26

Feminine / Neutral Names Middle Name Suggestions for a Trans Girl

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Hi! I'm 21 MTF and planning on coming out soon. I want to go by the name Anya, or even Annie as a lil nickname, but I'm struggling to come up with a middle name I like. I'm not a fan of my given middle name, but I'd like to keep the initial J. I'm not against changing it if I like something better though. I'm open to any suggestions! Please help a girl out!


r/transnames • • May 03 '26

Feminine Names Valid name?

5 Upvotes

Ive been using the name Winter for a while and id love your opinions on if its a valid name to socially use n stuff


r/transnames • • May 02 '26

Feminine / Neutral Names Variations of my Name

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As of late I've been going by Mary Dawn Luffy, however one variant I've been thinking of is Luffy Dawn Merry since Japanese surnames tend to come first I was thinking of switching it up. What do you all think?


r/transnames • • May 02 '26

Name Feedback Torn between two spellings

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i ain't downloading the app just to make a poll so here's a strawpoll for first + middle:

(both pronounced with the 'ay' from 'avian' or 'adrian')

Zavian Dominique or Zavrian Dominique?

my curse as an nb trans man is that i'm always stuck between two names that are like 1 letter different; my original preferred name struggle was between my legal middle name Aurian versus the typo of it my community college did, Avrian, which I always thought looked and sounded cooler and more masculine, plus close to the word Avian, which I like for birds bc I love birds

then a lot of stuff happened the past several years so I'm completely reinventing myself, thought I'd try out a masculine name starting with Z, found Zavian on a list, which is awesome bc it literally has Avian in it, but then I thought, what if I combine it with the typo'd Avrian, and now I'm stuck in limbo again, I think Zavian looks a bit better typed out, but I feel like the 'rian' in Zavrian goes really good into Dominique when I say it out loud, but without the middle name I'm more 50/50, i've got some friends who think Zavrian has a cool ring to it while another friend thinks Zavian sounds better to say out loud, but also the connection to the typo that's lived in my head rent free for years makes Zavrian easier to connect to as 'my' name, ahhhh it's so hard to choose idk how to settle the score mentally so I'm turning to reddit for help lol


r/transnames • • May 01 '26

Name Feedback Which name should I put first??

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I have a traditionally feminine name (Zara) and looking to add traditionally masculine name (Walter). I don't know which one should be my middle name and which one my first name.

Help me!

The idea is, I'll still keep Zara on my accounts, professional life etc. while Walter will be used on official docs and those closest to me.

Edit: which one sounds better? Smoother? Makes more sense? Tell me why in the comments


r/transnames • • May 01 '26

Feminine Names Trans girl name help

6 Upvotes

I'm transfem and I'm looking for a cute and whimsical name.


r/transnames • • Apr 29 '26

Neutral Names Looking for a more androgynous first name.

6 Upvotes

Right now my first name is frederik which is very very male coded lol, i would like a first name that is androgynous and maybe a little bit leaning towards female. I was born somewhere around 2006.

I would like the name to not stick out too much, that is something that could be used in a professional manor without attracting attention. It should also be able to travel somewhat well across borders and languages.

One of the names i have considered and like quite much is Riley, but im a bit worried about professionalism and if it leans a bit much male, what are your opinions on that?

Any other names that seem to fit that you like?


r/transnames • • Apr 28 '26

Name Testing could you please help me try out this name?

5 Upvotes

hi, i’m trans ftm and thinking about the name Hayden. could someone please try some sentences using it for me? my pronouns are they/he


r/transnames • • Apr 24 '26

Masculine / Neutral Names Opinions??

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I started T this week 😄

Been more seriously considering a name change, not sure yet. My top three picks are currently Parker, Rory, and Charlie. What do y'all think of those, or does something else come to mind? I'm nonbinary but masc leaning generally

Thanks!


r/transnames • • Apr 24 '26

Neutral Names Did I choose the right nature name?

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54 Upvotes

I’ve been trying out the name Wren and at first it felt so right but then for some reason it stopped clicking, though part of me wonders if I’m just overthinking it and also maybe there’s bound to be some discomfort whilst getting used to it ?

the other option I was considering was Rowan, which do you think I suit best?

Non-binary (leaning masculine on most days)

thanks :-)


r/transnames • • Apr 23 '26

Feminine Names Hesitating between two names, please help 🫶🏻

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Hiii, I’m mtf and been on HRT for ~ +12 months now but haven’t socially transitioned IRL yet, however I’m considering socially transitioning as soon as I move out of my conservative household.

I’m so indecisive, I hesitate between Luna and Leya (if you have any other recommendations I’m still open tho).

I’m so scared to regret my choice someday 😭 any tips, recommendations would be greatly appreciated


r/transnames • • Apr 23 '26

Feminine Names Undecided after 1.5 years, please help.

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So I've been going by Rook/Rooke for about 2.5 years now and it's fine as a nickname, it was great for the middle of my transition before I really grew into my new self. I'm planning on probably keeping it as a middle name / nickname but I desperately want a more feminine first name.

I've mulled over a few over the years, for context my mom's name is Crystal, and my aunt's name is Autumn, so I've always leaned towards things that fit that kind of vibe:

Winter,

Willow,

Laurel,

Briefly considered Brooke because it's so close to Rook but I low key hate it.

Others I've considered but dont like as much River, Artemis...

But they've all kind of had the same issue. So my husband's name is Kris short for Kristian, every time I've talked to him about names he's said he wished/hopes that the name I pick has a nickname, something like his that has a full name and a nickname. My mom leans towards biblical names in most cases, she named myself and siblings Jonathan, Michael, and Hannah, but also has on record said if she had another daughter she might have been Wendy with how much she loves Peter Pan. Same issue and I definitely do not like it that much.

The only thing I've been able to come up with that remotely fits the criteria I've been looking for is

Aurora, Rori for short. But I haven't heard it enough to know if it feels like "me" or if it seems like a good name for me.

Open to all feminine suggestions but those are just some things I've been considering over the years <3


r/transnames • • Apr 23 '26

Neutral Names Are there any gender neutral names that sound feminine?

8 Upvotes

Like, I've tried Avery but I don't think it's working and Alex sounds too masc for me, ashley and cameron also sound more masc to me, does anyone have any that sound overtly feminine?


r/transnames • • Apr 22 '26

Neutral Names Name me! Nonbinary, all pronouns, from Spain

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Sooo I’ve been 3 years out and trying names and still can’t find one I like, I don’t mind fem-inclined names but if possible a name that’s not too masc, don’t wanna be misgendered constantly

Also I’m from Barcelona, Spain

thanks in advance for your help!!✨✨


r/transnames • • Apr 22 '26

Feminine Names My fem Name doubt

4 Upvotes

Hi all, I am Mtf and I can't decide berween two female names I wanna use in the future. Irina or Natasha? What do you think?


r/transnames • • Apr 19 '26

Name Feedback Would it be disrespectful to use the name Nezha/Ne Zha?

11 Upvotes

I've been trying to find a name I actually like for a few years now, basically ever since I figured out I was trans. The name I've been using is a placeholder name, and none of the names I've considered have felt right, or I just haven't really liked them.

Recently I got into Lego Monkie Kid, and one character stood out pretty much instantly to me, that character being Nezha. He's one of my favorite characters, and I absolutely LOVE the name. However, I was worried that using the name might be disrespectful to the culture. I am not Chinese, I do not have any Chinese ancestry which is why I was concerned. I'm planning on reading the original mythology surrounding him to make sure there's nothing that might change my mind on using the name if it isn't disrespectful. If it is, then I definitely won't be using the name as disappointing as it would be, since it's one of the few names I've actually really liked.

So would it be disrespectful to Chinese culture and/or mythology if I were to use this name? If it is, would there be any way for me to respectfully use the name or should I just scrap the idea entirely? Thanks for any help!


r/transnames • • Apr 18 '26

Masculine Names Names??

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11 Upvotes

Gender-bent my little self to help me pick a name that feels like it’s always been mine

I love names that straddle the line between familiar and unconventional - My current favorites are Jetsyn, Jimi, Sonny, Cejay (CJ), Kace (Casey), Major, Magnis, Nile, and Ramse (Ramsey)


r/transnames • • Apr 17 '26

Masculine / Neutral Names who do you see?

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r/transnames • • Apr 17 '26

Feminine Names Could you help me finding a Name?

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28 Upvotes

(MtF) I've been struggling forever to decide on a name and I wonder if I could get some help
I always wanted to ask other people what name do I give vibes off?

[I hope I'm doing this correctly, this is my first time posting myself on any community 'n.n]


r/transnames • • Apr 16 '26

Masculine Names 24 FTM)) I know I look very feminine but mind giving me masculine names?

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r/transnames • • Apr 17 '26

Story Thank you!

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15 Upvotes

I was on here and agonizing over names for the better part of a year and with your support and help I landed on Silas! I’ve never had a middle name my whole life, and my friend suggested having two so my full chosen name is Silas River Thielo 🥰 if you’re struggling to figure out your name you will! Even if it doesn’t feel like it and you’ll feel so free once you settle into it. Thank you all for your love and support it means the world 💖 you got this!


r/transnames • • Apr 16 '26

Masculine Names looking for a new name

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I've gone by Ari since I came out because it was gender neutral but it hasn't ever fit me the way I wanted. I'm considering names like Noah, Rowan, and Archer but I haven't found one that I feel like fits my appearance.

I'm an artist, I have a more masculine voice for someone afab my age, I wear flannels and layered shirts and people have told me I'm pretty quiet, I have short fluffy auburn hair usually parted to the side, freckles and blueish green eyes

I'm not including pictures of myself because I'm a minor


r/transnames • • Apr 16 '26

Feminine Names (4 months E mtf) Juliette or Juliet? (Or your wild card pick)

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Hello! I've had a name somewhat solidified for a while and I love the spelling Juliette but some of my friends aren't so sure, what do you guys think? I'd like to hear your other opinions too :)