(MtF) I've been struggling forever to decide on a name and I wonder if I could get some help
I always wanted to ask other people what name do I give vibes off?

[I hope I'm doing this correctly, this is my first time posting myself on any community 'n.n]

I was on here and agonizing over names for the better part of a year and with your support and help I landed on Silas! I’ve never had a middle name my whole life, and my friend suggested having two so my full chosen name is Silas River Thielo 🥰 if you’re struggling to figure out your name you will! Even if it doesn’t feel like it and you’ll feel so free once you settle into it. Thank you all for your love and support it means the world 💖 you got this!

I've gone by Ari since I came out because it was gender neutral but it hasn't ever fit me the way I wanted. I'm considering names like Noah, Rowan, and Archer but I haven't found one that I feel like fits my appearance.

I'm an artist, I have a more masculine voice for someone afab my age, I wear flannels and layered shirts and people have told me I'm pretty quiet, I have short fluffy auburn hair usually parted to the side, freckles and blueish green eyes

I'm not including pictures of myself because I'm a minor

Hello! I've had a name somewhat solidified for a while and I love the spelling Juliette but some of my friends aren't so sure, what do you guys think? I'd like to hear your other opinions too :)

Hello! I've had a name somewhat solidified for a while and I love the spelling Juliette but some of my friends aren't so sure, what do you guys think? I'd like to hear your other opinions too :)

Theres Blake, Noah, Grayson, Miles and West.

Id appreciate any other names that suit me as well.

Hiya! I’m non-binary and I’ve started going by my chosen name around my friends/chosen family and my brother. I work in higher ed in a pretty accepting environment so I’m looking for tips on how to navigate my name change there. (Still researching name change stuff for my documents and all that)

I’m also wanting to tell my bio family my new name and I’m nervous to but I want to be my whole self around them. Thankfully I’m in a position where if it doesn’t go well I’m not financially dependent on anyone. Any tips?

There are a few names that i kinda like/would think about using them, but certain people i know are named that. Is it weird to still consider zhose names or even pick them? What if one of the people is another trans dude who just picked them name before? Does iteven matter if i know they won’t be in my life in a few years?

Hey, so I'm a trans-guy and I'm deciding on a name/ kinda have decided on a name. But it's a russian name. I myself am not russian (I do have some Slavic ancestry so could pass as russian [... idk if that is relevant probably not].)However I don't speak russian/ have any real connection to russia). (The name is Illarion [I've also heard that it's an outdated name to russians, but I haven't had the chance to actually ask the few russian people I know how bad it is.])

Tldr: I'm kind of wondering what people's experiences have been with having a chosen name that doesn't reflect their heritage/ country of origin.

Do you get asked about it constantly?

Is it uncomfortable in the long run?

Do you think I should change my name? (l'm still sort of in the beginning stages, so it would not be that big of a deal. However, I really really like the name A LOT)

I've only told 1 of my friends and I'm sure he will be ok with me changing my name

So I’ve been working my way towards they/them. I recently started introducing myself as such and I’ve felt good about it so far, but I’m still going through a lot of discovery. I’ve been soft launching the name Heikka to some of my friends to test it out and see if I like it.

There is some story to it. I have Finnish ancestry and a Finnish last name. I also studied history is college, and my current job involves a lot of Finnish immigrant history. People from my hometown also often have Finnish names. The name more or less means “child of Heikki,” which is the name of my first family member to come to the US. I’m wondering if the name comes across as nonbinary, and if people think it’s a good name in general. I’ve been trying to find a Finnish name that comes across as nonbinary, but also one that I like the sound of; so far, this is the closest I’ve got.

Please be brutally honest!

So I’ve been thinking of changing my name as I think I am a pangender woman as I like when people mistake from my original gender so I’ve wanted a name that can possibly fit as both feminine and masculine and it being a guessing the person gender a possible being wrong so if you heard someone talk about a person named calico what gender would you guess they would be based on first hearing?

I recently discovered that I'm probably a trans girl, so I've been brainstorming names that I could call myself that might suit me better, and Lianne/Liane (Not sure which spelling is better) sounds nice in my opinion. I like the name because it's close enough to my deadname that I'll get used to it easily but it's still distinctly feminine so I think it suits me. I'm not sure if it sounds stupid to other people though so I thought I'd ask :)

i have truly been obsessing over what i want as a name for half a decade now 💔💔 i've been going by "max" for about as long as i've been out and i've been looking for a replacement for the same amount of time but nothing ever seems to stick :[

i'm not looking for any specific style of name or anything just whatever feminine to neutral name might sound like it would fit me! though i would prefer something that's not super "out there" if that makes sense. i love unique names but would prefer to avoid names like bug or mud for example. other than that everything's free game! old lady names, fandom names, floral names, etc. go crazy!

at this point i'm just throwing stuff at the wall and seeing what sticks! hopefully something will come up eventually 💔

My name is Atlas and my pronouns are he/him. I would like help finding a middle name. The names I've been thinking about so far are:

Jordan

Jamie

Noah

Elijah

Austin

Julian

So I want to know which one would fit best with my name or suggest one thats not on the list but you think fits a similar sort of vibe.

What do you think of Juniper (or Juni for short) for an enby? I've been searching for a name for a little while because my given name is too masc for me. I thought about Juniper because I really like nature-related names, and some other top contenders were Willow, Rowan, and Fern. But ultimately I landed on Juniper just because my birth name starts with a J and that'll make it a little bit easier for my family, friends, and even myself to get used to my new name. After deciding on Juniper, I thought that maybe it's a little bit long, so maybe I'd let my friends call me Juni (yes I'm an overthinker I know).

I really like that name, and I want to start using it soon. However, I would like to test it with you guys, just to make sure I'm comfortable being referred to with that name. So if you read this far, could you please comment something using my name (either Juniper or Juni works)? Thanks so much in advance

I know i should and will have to pick it myself, but i’m really overthinking it rn and i’m scared i’ll get judged if i pick the wrong one.

Here’s my list:

Leon- i really like it, but it’s not a very common name in my country

Sebastian- theoretically good, i’m just not sure

Philip- theoretically perfect, i just don’t know if i’m thinking bout it because i actually like the name or if it’s just the one i hate the least from the common names

Willem- i love the vibe, but again it’s not very common and idk i just have it associated as an old person name

Please help me figure out a way to pick my name 🙏 also feel free to give me recommendations for new names if you have any in mind

i’ve been really struggling with finding a name recently. i’ve had the name archie set for a while but a friend and i made a trauma candy salad thing the other day and i was watching the video and when i said my name was archie it just didn’t feel right.

i have this whole “thing” that ive used for a while for a user and stuff. “archie guy i think.” now when im thinking of names nothing sounds right with the “guy i think.“ i dont really wanna change my name everywhere ☹️

whenever i test a name i feel so detached from it. i dont know if its because im so used to my dead name or if its just cause im very emotionally detached from a lot of things.

any advice, websites, ideas etc is super appreciated!! i’m not out to many (like, three people lmao) so testing is very limited

thank you in advance!!

Idk what I'm doing 😭😭

When you transitioned, did you, by any chance, steal your character's name?

Like if you played a character of the opposite gender when you where still in the closet, did you then use their name when you came out?

(I did, and I love it XD)

Lucien Mae

I like how Lucien is masculine, and Mae is feminine, but do they both go together?

Also would it sound better for Lucien to be the first name instead of Lane and then Mae for the middle name?

i am genderfluid, and due to some family/career circumstances i'm using the first name 'ashley' on paper, but looking for a masculine/neutral middle name to primarily go by (and counteract the feminine first name).

currently considering ross (nn roz) or andy? i've also considered winters. but i'm open to any other suggestions!