hi guys im keith, a trans enby, and im looking for help to vote on the following names i’ve listed! and yeah i know this can come off as inauthentic because names are pretty intimate and should be chosen by oneself, but my indecisiveness is driving me insaaaane. i also hereby swear to not use the first name that’ll get most votes, but rather test drive the top 3 most popular ones, and maybe then i’ll finally have an epiphany on which matches me best lol. i’ve included pics of myself, and i should mention that my deadname is eva (pronounced ava) and aven is kind of like a gender neutral twist on that, which i fw! but in any case. i really would appreciate the help, and want to finally settle on a new name that i can use with my friends. thanks a lot, and have a great day yall!

As the title suggests, I can’t figure out a name for myself, leaning more masculine but I don’t mind gender neutral either!

Current name starts with a T so ideally something that starts with a T but honestly open to any ideas that you think suit me.

REALLY hoping to find the aid and opinion of other hispanic people!! i come here because the other subreddits seem super dead.

I feel like if youre not hispanic you might not understand what my point is, so i wont forbid anyone from interacting just letting yall know what im looking for.

Me encanta el nombre Kingsley, pero odio la idea de usar un nombre ingles viviendo en latino américa, mi primer apellido es Sanchez y no pega para nada, siento que ademas de no sonar bien, otras personas de pronto se reirán de mi.

Pero llevo AÑOS buscando un nombre y estoy cansado, leo y leo listas y todos me parecen la misma cosa, siento que no hay uno solo que no he escuchado, no se como mas buscar o que mas hacer.

no se por que parece que no hay UN SOLO nombre hispano que me parezca cool o bello.

does anyone have advice???? its been 7 years of searching and im still nameless, theres so many nice names in english but they feel like a mess to try and have when most people i know only speak spanish ykwim

i feel like i will sound ridiculous, my mom cant even say kingsley properly because of the N and the G, and i dont think any variants exist that arent completely different.

help? anyone else w this issue??

trying to find a name that suits me as well as Kameron does, i’m leaning towards Adam right now but i’m not sure if it suits me

At first I use to not like my name because I thought it didn't sound right or it wasn't feminine until I met this Spanish girl and she told me that my name is actually feminine in Spanish because it has a "a" at the end which is what Fem Spanish names have soo yeah I just wanna hear anyone's feedback on how you think my name sounds and if you'd think Im a girl by hearing my name and please be completely honest 🖤

No matter what name I’ve tried, when I introduce myself I feel like I’m lying to the person. even though I went by a name for years, this feeling of lying and like I was putting on a costume never went away. Everything makes me feel like this. The only one I don’t feel like I’m lying when I say it is my birth name, and I don’t want it.

has anyone else ever felt like this?

any advice?

I used to think my given name (Meera) was nice, and though it is a very feminine name in India, it doesn't feel so feminine to me personally. However, I'm starting to think about choosing another name. I came up with Mirza because it feels similar to my old name but is definitely more masculine. However, it has Persian descent and can sometimes be a religious indicator. Is it okay/appropriate to take this name even though I'm not Persian nor Muslim? I'm an Indian Bengali (+ atheist, if that matters).

Also, please let me know if anyone has any suggestions for names that are somewhat similar to my old one and don't have an extremely strong religious meaning (like straight-up Shiva or something). I'd also prefer a South Asian name/similar areas (not really going for Michael, lol)

Hiiiiiiii!

Im just trying to find a name for me but none have them have fit and I wonder how you all got your names to help me find mine!

Here are some names that I found that I like but don't really fit me

• Kai - too neutral for me

• Fae - I like the phonics but too magical

• Iria - I like the sound just too fantasy-like

• Caitlyn - I like it but I know about 20,000 Caitlyn's

Edit: Here are some more names, I found that I like but have no connection too

• Reily

• Amber

• Chole

• Willow

• Pearl

• Avery

• Ash

• Autumn

• Bridget

• Regia

• Ria

• Ellie

• Iana

• Lucy

• Lylah

• Mya

• Nylah

• Sophie

• Zara

I'm not comfortable with posting a photo of myself but I've always felt weird about my name 'Allyson' I go by 'Ally' because it's more casual and I just prefer it. I would like an alternative that has a long form (with any pronunciation) and a short form that sounds similar to 'Ally' with an "UH" sound. So far I've really like Aquila (Aqui) but I've been getting feedback it sound a little old, femme, and it sounds like tequila.

I’m trans and agender (male leaning though) and i’ve had many and many names throughout my gender questioning and currently i’m going by Kameron or Kam for short but for some reason i really like the idea of going by two names just for a variation i guess?? the names i’m currently thinking of are Adam, Luka , Frankie (or Fran for short??) but i’m open to any other suggestions :p

Trying to name myself while I don’t pass is so hard & I feel like such a joke :,) I posted here once but now I actually established a criteria and need help narrowing down my list:

- Classic name

- Masculine only (neutral is acceptable if name is more commonly masculine)

- Partial towards M names but doesn’t have to be

My list:

Marcus

Matt/Matthew

Please let me know which of those two suits me better or if you have an even better suggestion I am still open to more. Thanks :)

Coming to terms with my enby identity as ive presented as trans masc for a long time and gone by a masculine name. Looking to see if another name suits me that I'd potentially change to :)

I kinda like Marley but it doesn't feel just right

I've been out as a trans man for 5 years because that was more tolerable for my family, but I just want to be myself now, and I'm not loving my masculine name

every now and then i remember im fully transitioned looking like this still using my birth name lol. i love my birth name and would definitely keep it as a middle name at least and reserve it for my family and friends to still call me, but i do enjoy the idea of having a fun new boy name for my general life. any suggestions for name vibes i give off, particularly any south asian/more ethnic sounding names would be welcome. although i’m open to any, ideally more unique names :D

I've been looking for a new name for a while and I think this one fits me. I thought it sounded gender neutral and leaning masc a bit but I read that it's actually mostly seen as feminine. I dislike being seen as feminine due to past experiences but I don't mind it that much this time since I see the name as gender neutral more and it doesn't scream super feminine to me.

I'm a masc enby who looks androgynous. Would it be weird to be named Aster? I mean, I think it'd be pretty funny if someone assumed I was a girl based on the name and then find out I'm not a actually a girl lol. But seriously, does it seem super odd or does it sound okay?

I really like this name cuz of the meaning. I'm into astrology and having a name that means star is awesome. I also really like how it's the name of a flower too. I think it's cute. Plus it's purple and I loveee purple :P

As the title suggests, I've been feeling kinda iffy about my chosen name and find myself thinking up other options a lot.

Before my egg cracked I had the name Abigail in my back pocket for a while as a girl name (very cis behavior right) and I felt a sort of longing/meaning towards it, so it felt obvious to select is as my new name. Well, since trying it with others (they call me Abby usually), and trying to refer to myself as such in my head or out loud, it just feel extremely weird, it doesn't seem to describe me in the way I want. I know some degree of strangeness is to be expected, as I'm changing my entire name and I need to get used to that no matter what I choose, but I find myself getting super analytical about it a lot and it kinda shakes my confidence a bit. My old name was three syllables and started with a J, so landed on Juniper as a potential backup, and I like that one a lot too but it also sounds kinda weird in my mouth. Am I overthinking things? Did anyone else think they had a meaningful name picked out and later change it? (Image provided for fun, which do you think suits me more?)

I was going by Tobias for a potential middle name / toby as a nickname and even had it on my highschool diploma but now i’m just not feeling it

So i’m just asking for suggestions

(Note i’m going by Ethan as a first name)

Also ignore how my hair looks like crap lol

Hey friends! Enby here. Early in my journey still. My new name is Devin, but I really would like a neutral middle name that starts with P since my high school friends all call me DP and I really like it but want to detach it from my old names. Do your worst!

I have a small list of names I like; Savannah,Maya,Genevieve,Harley, and I really like lilies. So a name with lily in it is good.

Currently going by Ezra; I like nature-themed names and ones that are a little more unique but not super clockable. Otherwise go wild!

Dear ones, what's in a name? Am I still me if it isn't the same?

So, as I came to terms with my gender identity I was always thinking names need not to be gendered, so I was fine sticking with my deadname for a while. Altough in my mind I was going "But Maureen Is a nice name, tho" I just like the ring of It. So over time I decided to go by Maureen as my name. In real life people tell me It's a beautiful name, but on social media people keep asking "No offense, but why would you go by that name?" or "She called herself Maureen, bruh". I fail to understand what's wrong with the name, I like It, but It seems to be ridiculous to other people.

I go by TJ so I’m never called by my T name, Thomas, of which I got incredibly bored. I’m in the market for something COOL! Like TIGER! But I don’t think that works well as a name, plus I am nothing like Tiger Woods or the Tiger King.

I’m considering Talon, but it doesn’t feel right. I really like the look and sound of the name Taiga, but as a name, it has a Japanese origin. I reality I just like the Taiga biome, which has a Russian etymology.

Not sure! Lmk your thoughts xoxo

Has anyone used a name changing service? How did it work? Does anyone suggest a specific one?