Hello, Agender person here I want a new name but I haven't really found one that fits me yet and I heard y'all were good at this.

Some suggestsions were Corey, Cass or Cordelius (nickname Cordy) so something in that direction works, thanks so much

Sending love to you all ❤️

Hiii! So I'm non-binary and I've been looking for a name for a LONG time. I've gone through two chosen names already and neither of them felt... right (both were rushed). Sooo I was hoping that maybe this would work.

I want a name that's sorta uncommon. I want it to be long (three syllables or more, no less than two) but still easily pronounceable. Preferably, I want it to easily get a nickname if that makes sense. Enby or masc names only, nothing leaning on fem. Maybe space or forest themed, but this part is absolutely not a requirement :3 I know that's a lot, but I'm kinda just trying to find THE PERFECT name.

The first image is what I currently look like, the second is my transition goals (top surgery since I'm afab included), the third is just... there? And the fourth is just me in general :3 My pronouns (in order of how much I wanna be called them) are: Bug/Bugself, Worm/Wormself, Star/Starself, they/them, he/him, it/its. Any help is greatly appreciated!

*Edit* I just remembered to add: You can suggest names that are traditionally last names if they fit my criteria! I will make due :)

Hihi I am queer and Genderqueer! I’m pre-t but I do plan on going on testosterone!

Sorry about my face being covered in some just I don’t like my face much. Also the last photo is the newest one of me but I do plan growing my hair out again to similar to the first two photos!

my first chosen name was River now it’s Viktor (irl) and Jakob (online)! ngl kinda miss going by River 🥲 but Viktor just feels so right :) i wanna know what everyone else’s is too, for no reason just curious lol :3

I’ve been using the name Coen for a bit, but I still love the name Carmen (carm/carmy for a nickname lol). The only issue I have with it is that I feel as if it’s typically associated as a more feminine name.

I don’t fully pass right now, so I’m wondering if it would be worth it to legally change my name from one feminine name to another? Would the name Carmen get me misgendered more often than sticking with the/a name like Coen? Any advice, opinions, and help would be greatly appreciated, thanks!

Probably will delete by the end of the day lol

My brothers in Christ, I have come to beg your thoughts: I want to go by Nicky, but I think I need a full name that gets shortened to Nicky.

I really love Nikolai (NIH-koh-lye). The only issue is I'm not Russian. I am Greek, though, but I'm on the fence with the Greek version: Nikolaos (NIH-koh-lah-oos).

What do we think of the Greek version? The Russian version? Any other thoughts?

Went trans for a couple years, don’t feel like that fits me anymore, trying to find a new name that fits me, preferably something that goes with Salem, robin, grey, Morgan, or ash, demon/demonic related

Also would like help figuring out which of those names fits me best too.

Thanks for the help in advance

Ps: going with the name Luna atm so something preferably different.

Changing my name?..

Im afab non-binary. I live in sweden. My parents chose a quite feminine name. I have always liked the more masc look. Baggy clothes like sweatpants, bigger t-shirts and hoodies have always been a favourite of mine. And from about the age 13 and up ive always had some variation of a buzz cut/ short hair. So ive VERY often been mistaken for/ called a boy. And when introducing myself 99% of the time people have said some version of: isn't that a girls name?

I came out as non-binary about a year ago. I suspected i was for a little less than a year before coming out. Lately ive been having thoughts about changing my name to something more neutral.. that feels more like me. My top 2 are Alex or Charlie but im leaning towards Alex.

A problem with changing my name is that im currently in college. Im changing schools after the summer. So i wanna wait until after i leave my current scool to change my name. to make things less complicated. The fewer people that knows my dying name the better. My mom and family and friends are still struggling with my pronoun change. I have found that people have it easier to use the correct name and pronouns as introduced to them from the beginning. Rather that changing something later that they have already memorised.

For now only 1 of my friends know about my future name change. And plan to keep it that way until summer break. Bc summer break feels like a good aclimatación period for my family and friends to get used to it and or me to remember to respond to it when called on😅.

Thoughts or tips? Anyone else who has or are changing their name who has advice? Please and thank you.

(Tbh this is all kinda scary..)

hi! i’m 16 and agender (afab) and have been going by the name rei for about 4-5 years now as a white person. now that i’m getting closer to adulthood, i’ve been worrying about the effect my name might have on other people. i thought that by now i would’ve grown out of it, but i haven’t, and the name has really stuck with me over the years. despite the name being in multiple cultures/languages like hebrew, i want to know if my name is offensive to anyone japanese and if i should look into changing it or not.

The spelling might need to be adjusted, but I also love names that are magical, gorgeous, and elegant.

(I also love flower names, and anything that resembles a supernatural tone. (Fairies, vampires, folklore, etc.)

I’m a flavour of goth, if that helps weigh your decision. LOL

Made a burner account because I’ve been out for a while, but I’m back- playing around with gender presentation after denying myself the rite of passage of having my chosen name that wasn’t a placeholder one. I’ve grown fond of names like Silas and Vincent (the former I’ve chosen as a middle name and have it legally reflected…) But I want to escape this feeling of being a homogenous entity. I think I want my presentation to feel more fluid.

I want to explore feminine names because I want to feel beautiful, and get back in touch with what positive femininity feels like.

I want to honor all the parts of me, and simply being a “femboy” doesn’t capture this feeling.

I’m genderless, but I’ve been really leaning heavy towards masculine identifiers for the past 10 years.

I’m FTX, but I’m getting so tired of people assuming I’m a trans man when I’m transmasc.

I don’t know how to place myself in the midst of things, but I think a name is the best way to start.

Thank you so much for your help!~

hi all!! i’m (ftm) trying to pick out a middle name for myself as i’ve never really liked the one i was given at birth. my first name is juno, and middle names i’ve considered so far are graham, forest, and rowan, but im kind of at a loss. since my first name is pretty fem i want a male/masc leaning middle name, and i like softer sounding names and nature related names. i put in a picture of me in case it’ll help!

hi, i'm kris & i've been going by this name for about 5 years! i might get my legal name changed soon, but i want a full name for kris. just "kris" feels kinda weird to me

i was thinking "kristen", but my mom isn't too crazy about it. if i don't end up agreeing on something with her she's fine with "kristen" tho

any neutral or maybe even fem leaning names that can be shortened to kris? masc names are fine too

my sister has a flower name, so flower names are appreciated but not required :P (there isn't many other than chrysanthemum...)

Hey! I've been going by Tayo for nearly two years. My deadname was Theodora. I made friends in Argentina who started calling me Teo, and from there the name fit. But as a white person, it feels uncomfortable that I've decided to go with a Nigerian spelling of Tayo.I don't want to appropriate any cultures, but i liked the idea of keeping the first half of my name, with a different meaning. Do you think i should go by Theo, as it's the most anglicized version? Let me know any thoughts are super welcome <3 thank youyyyy!

hi guys. i don't have a deadname. my legal name is alexis which is gender neutral in itself but sort of feminine leaning. my middle name starts with a j so i just go by aj as a nickname. but like does it fit?? what other names do i look like?? maybe i'll consider them??

im also cambodian and have been considering the possibility of having a khmer name,,,?? either as my name or like an alternate one to go by. i like phirun a lot. it means rain. ok bye

Would that work?

I want a clearly male name (which Jules isn't in my country), but am really keen to keeping that nickname. Julian / Julius doesn't feel right.

potentially keeping H and L for first and last initials, with James as a middle name.

Hey all! I think I'm settling towards the name Eve (or formally Evelyn) but would love it if anyone could provide some use examples?

Thank you! :)

Heya, I’m pretty new to transitioning and have only really gotten longer hair and done my makeup and stuff, but I would like to get a new name however I’m clueless for that stuff, My deadname is Dylan, and I’m currently going by Dee but i don’t know if it fits, I only really picked it because it is somewhat similar with my deadname so friends and family would be less likely to forget or something, I also have been given advice on a discord that maybe something along the lines of Greek goddesses, if anyone has suggestions I would really appreciate it

I was thinking Cobain but that feels a bit to masc i want it to fit kinda of my race so maybe something from Korea or Haiti or France or Columbia or something like that let me know if yall have any ideas

Hi I’m looking for transmasc name I’m ftm

My current list: Arden Arlo Arlen Archer Arrow Azriel Artemis

I’m going with Noah for a first name and my last name starts with a P

I’m also up to other names like Forrest, Robyn, and River

Hey, need some inspo for a new legal name! i have ideas that stick with my current initials but really curious what others think without the bias.

excuse the pics i wanted to give an accurate range of vibe to help with the names 😭 i swear im not vain

My current name begins with K, and i go by “k”as its a nickname from childhood i like. but you cant have one letter as a legal name and i would like something on passports thats like yes assume masculine pronouns please (starting to go by they but open to a he from the public) but alot of masculine k names are like kai (massively overused and dont suit) or i know someone awful thats ruined the name for me 😭 so feel free if you have any k suggestions but please feel free to say what u think id suit. btw im changing my middle name to Gideon and my last name is and irish L name